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Best For:
- Couples exploring strap-on play beyond beginner level
- Those wanting size progression in one kit
- Partners who enjoy shared stimulation during pegging
- Hip sizes up to 60 inches
- Anyone seeking a complete harness-and-dildo solution
The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit takes the guesswork out of stepping up your strap-on experience. This complete set pairs a 4-way adjustable velvet harness with two smooth silicone dildos — the Silk Medium (1" × 5.5") and Silk Large (1.5" × 7") — so you can scale up as comfort allows. The harness accommodates hips up to 60 inches and includes a front pocket that holds the included bullet vibrator, positioning it for dual stimulation during use.
What sets this kit apart is the two O-rings (1.48" and 1.53") that let you swap between the included dildos or use compatible toys from your own collection. The velvet harness fabric is softer against skin than nylon alternatives, and the bullet vibe adds a layer of pleasure for the wearer — a thoughtful touch often missing from beginner kits. Both dildos are made from Tantus's body-safe silicone formula, which holds up to repeated use and thorough cleaning without degrading.
This isn't a first-time kit — the Silk Large's girth assumes some experience with penetration play. If you're new to strap-ons entirely, consider starting with a single smaller dildo before committing to a two-piece set. That said, having both sizes means you won't need to buy a second harness when you're ready to size up, which makes this kit a practical midpoint between starter sets and high-end modular harness systems.
Key Features
- Includes two 100% silicone dildos: Silk Medium (1" × 5.5") and Silk Large (1.5" × 7")
- 4-way adjustable velvet harness fits hips up to 60 inches
- Two interchangeable O-rings (1.48" and 1.53") for size flexibility
- Front pocket holds included bullet vibrator for wearer stimulation
- Machine washable harness (use delicates bag, remove bullet before washing)
- Dishwasher-safe silicone dildos for thorough sanitizing
- Lavender colorway in medium harness size
How to Use
Thread one of the O-rings through the front opening of the harness, then slide your chosen dildo through the ring until the base sits flush. Adjust the four straps until the harness sits snugly against your hips — it should feel secure without digging in. Insert the bullet vibrator into the front pocket before or during use for added stimulation. After play, remove the bullet and hand-wash the harness or machine-wash in a delicates bag with mild detergent. Hang to dry. Wash the dildos with toy cleaner or place them on the top rack of the dishwasher.
Compatibility
- Lubricant: Use water-based lube with the silicone dildos to prevent material breakdown
- O-ring sizes: 1.48" and 1.53" accommodate most intermediate-sized dildos with flared bases
- Harness fit: Adjusts to hip measurements up to 60 inches; check sizing if you're near the upper limit
- Bullet vibrator: Fits into front harness pocket; not designed for internal use
Frequently Asked Questions
What sizes are the dildos in the Bend Over Intermediate Kit? The kit includes the Silk Medium (1" diameter × 5.5" insertable) and Silk Large (1.5" diameter × 7" insertable), both made from body-safe silicone.
Can I use other dildos with the included harness? Yes — the two O-rings (1.48" and 1.53") fit most intermediate-sized dildos with flared bases, giving you flexibility beyond the included toys.
How do I clean the velvet harness? Remove the bullet vibrator, then hand-wash or machine-wash the harness in a delicates bag using mild detergent. Hang to dry — avoid the dryer to preserve the velvet fabric.
Is the harness comfortable for extended wear? The velvet material and 4-way adjustability make it softer and more customizable than many nylon harnesses, though fit varies by body shape. Adjusting the straps snugly but not tight reduces shifting during use.
Does the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Kit ship discreetly to Canada? Yes — every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.