Best For: Intermediate users who prefer substantial girth over length, strap-on enthusiasts, and anyone seeking firm internal pressure without deep penetration.
The They/Them Malachite dildo by Tantus takes a deliberate approach to fullness — short insertable length paired with notable girth for users who want stretch and internal contact without depth concerns. Made from Tantus' Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone, this dildo balances firmness with enough yield to accommodate pelvic floor engagement during use. The malachite swirl pattern gives each piece a distinct look, while the smooth finish glides easily with proper lubrication.
What sets They/Them apart is its body-inclusive design philosophy — the flared suction base anchors securely in most harness O-rings, making it a reliable choice for partnered or solo strap-on play. The girth maintains steady contact with G-spot or P-spot anatomy, while the manageable length prevents discomfort from overinsertion. The silicone warms quickly to body temperature, and the non-porous material ensures compatibility with sensitive skin and easy sterilization between uses.
Wash with warm water and mild soap after every use. For sterilization between partners, boil for three minutes or run through the top rack of your dishwasher. Pair exclusively with water-based lubricants to maintain the silicone's integrity. Store away from other silicone toys to avoid surface reactions.
What is the They/Them Malachite dildo made of? It's crafted from Tantus' Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone — a body-safe, non-porous, hypoallergenic material free from phthalates.
Is this dildo suitable for harness use? Yes — the flared suction base fits most standard harness O-rings and provides stable anchoring during strap-on play.
What type of lubricant should I use with the They/Them dildo? Use only water-based lubricants with silicone toys to preserve the material and prevent surface degradation.
Can I sterilize the They/Them Malachite between partners? Absolutely — boil for three minutes or run through the dishwasher's top rack for complete sterilization between uses.
Does the They/Them Malachite ship discreetly to Canada? Yes — every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.