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Best For:
- Dual stimulation (wearer + partner)
- Couples exploring strap-on play
- G-spot and clitoral pleasure simultaneously
- LGBTQ+ partnerships
- Hands-free vibration control
The Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Strap-On XL is a triple-motor harness dildo system designed for simultaneous pleasure on both sides. The flexible internal bulb molds to the wearer's body and delivers clitoral and G-spot vibration, while the insertable shaft stimulates the receiving partner's erogenous zones. All three motors operate independently via wireless remote, so intensity stays under your control without breaking rhythm.
Constructed from body-safe liquid silicone, the bendable design allows the external bulb to conform to individual anatomy and hold its shape during use. The remote offers three vibration modes and three intensity levels across a 10-meter range, making it practical for both partnered play and solo experimentation. The strap-on is fully submersible (IPX7 waterproof), so shower or bath use is straightforward. Rechargeable battery delivers up to 60 minutes of runtime on a full charge.
This is the XL size variant—ideal for experienced users or those who prefer fuller sensation. The purple colorway coordinates with Strap On Me's signature aesthetic. While the brand markets this as "unparalleled" and "essential," what matters practically is the independent motor control and the flexibility of the wearer's bulb, which reduces the pressure-point discomfort some rigid designs create during extended sessions.
Key Features
- Three independent motors (internal bulb + shaft)
- Wireless remote control with 10-meter range
- Flexible, position-memory design in the wearer's bulb
- Body-safe liquid silicone construction
- IPX7 waterproof for bath/shower use
- Rechargeable with USB cable included
- XL sizing for fuller sensation
How to Use
Position the internal bulb against the wearer's vulva so the curved end rests on the clitoris and the bulbous portion sits at the vaginal opening. Adjust the bendable section until it feels secure and comfortable—the silicone holds its shape once molded. Insert the shaft into the receiving partner, then use the remote to cycle through vibration modes and intensities. Recharge both the strap-on and remote via USB after each session; charge time is approximately 120 minutes.
Compatibility
- Water-based lubricant: Safe and recommended for extended comfort
- Silicone-based lubricant: Avoid—may degrade the liquid silicone material
- Harness systems: Not required—this is a strapless design held in place by pelvic floor engagement
- Additional dildos: Not compatible—the shaft is integrated into the unit
Frequently Asked Questions
What keeps the Vibrating Bendable Strap-On XL in place during use? The internal bulb is held by pelvic floor engagement—similar to a Kegel exercise. The flexible, moldable design helps it conform to your body for a more secure fit, though some wearers find an O-ring harness adds stability during vigorous movement.
Can I control the internal and external motors separately? Yes—the three motors operate independently via the wireless remote, so you can adjust vibration intensity for the wearer's bulb and the insertable shaft separately to match each partner's preferences.
How do I clean the Vibrating Bendable Strap-On XL? Wash with warm water and mild soap or dedicated toy cleaner before and after each use. Since it's IPX7 waterproof, you can rinse it thoroughly without damaging the electronics. Dry completely before storing.
Is the XL size beginner-friendly? The XL is the largest size in the range and best suited for experienced users or those who prefer fuller sensation. If you're new to strap-on play, consider the M or L size first.
Does the Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Strap-On XL ship discreetly to Canada? Yes—every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.