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Best For:
- First-time harness users
- Strap-on play with a partner
- Hands-free pegging or penetration
- Hips 30-50 inches / 76-127 cm
- Couples exploring role reversal
The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit pairs an adjustable two-strap harness with a firm lavender dildo, giving first-time strap-on users everything they need in one package. The harness uses easy-pull D-rings and adjustable buckles to stay secure during play without complex rigging, while the supple vegan leather stays comfortable against skin for extended wear.
The included dildo is made from body-safe silicone in Tantus's Firm density — a balance between flexibility and rigidity that holds shape during thrusting. The harness ships with a 1.9-inch O-ring sized for the included toy, and the ring is removable so you can swap in different sizes as your play evolves. The two-strap design keeps the base plate centered without the bulk of traditional jock-style harnesses, making this a streamlined choice for users who want stability without excess fabric.
This isn't a one-size solution — the adjustable straps accommodate a range of body types, but users outside the 30-50 inch hip range may find the fit too loose or too snug. The firm dildo density also means this kit favors users who want targeted pressure over cushioned give.
Key Features
- Two-strap harness with adjustable buckles and D-rings
- Fits hips 30-50 inches / 76-127 cm
- Includes firm-density lavender silicone dildo
- Removable 1.9-inch O-ring (compatible with Tantus O-ring sets for other toy sizes)
- Vegan leather harness material
- Body-safe silicone dildo (phthalate-free, non-porous)
- Beginner-friendly kit — no separate purchases needed
How to Use
Adjust both leg straps and the waist strap to fit snugly — the harness should sit low on the hips with the O-ring centered over the pubic bone. Insert the dildo through the O-ring with the flared base behind the ring to keep it secure. Test the fit by tugging gently on the toy before play. After use, remove the dildo and wipe down the harness with a damp cloth; the silicone toy can be washed with soap and water or toy cleaner.
Compatibility
- Dildo sizes: Comes with 1.9-inch O-ring; additional Tantus O-ring sets available for smaller or larger toys
- Lubricant: Water-based lube recommended for the silicone dildo (avoid silicone lube on silicone toys)
- Body types: Best fit for 30-50 inch / 76-127 cm hips; may not accommodate significantly larger or smaller frames
Frequently Asked Questions
What dildo sizes fit the Tantus Bend Over harness? The harness comes with a 1.9-inch O-ring sized for the included dildo. You can swap in additional Tantus O-ring sets to accommodate smaller or larger toys with different base diameters.
Is the Bend Over harness adjustable for different body sizes? Yes — the waist and leg straps adjust to fit hips between 30-50 inches (76-127 cm). Users outside this range may find the fit too loose or restrictive.
What's the difference between firm and soft silicone dildos? Firm silicone holds its shape during thrusting and provides targeted pressure, while soft silicone has more give and cushion. The lavender dildo in this kit is firm-density for users who prefer less flex.
How do I clean the Tantus harness and dildo? Wipe the vegan leather harness with a damp cloth after use. The silicone dildo is fully waterproof — wash with soap and water or toy cleaner, and let air-dry before storing.
Does the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit ship discreetly to Canada? Yes — every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.