Strap On Me - Sliding Soft Realistic Dildo (Purple, Large)

The Strap-On-Me Sliding Soft Realistic Dildo in purple, size Large, is a realistic strap on dildo with a defined head, raised veins and textured balls, made from soft-touch silicone. It has a flexible shaft, a strong suction cup and a waterproof body. It suits couples looking for a lifelike shape to wear in a harness, and solo users who want a soft, bendable dildo they can also stick down for hands-free play.

What makes it feel realistic

Strap-On-Me sculpted this dildo to look and feel natural. The head has a defined ridge, the shaft has raised veins you can feel on every stroke, and the balls at the base are textured rather than smooth. The silicone has a soft-touch finish, so the surface feels velvety instead of slick or plasticky. The shaft is flexible, which lets it bend with the body during movement, something many receiving partners find more comfortable than a rigid toy.

Wearing it as a strap-on dildo

Strap-On-Me is a strap-on specialist, and this dildo is made to be worn. Slide it through the O-ring of your harness from the back, so the balls sit against the ring and hold it in place. The textured balls and wide base help it stay put during thrusting. A harness with a snug or adjustable ring gives the most stable fit, because a flexible shaft can wobble in a loose one. Tighten the harness straps so the base sits firmly against the pubic bone; that's where control comes from. If you're new to wearing, start with slow, shallow movements while you learn the angles. Communication helps more than technique: the receiving partner can guide the pace, and switching to positions where they're on top hands them control.

Solo or hands-free

The base is also a strong suction cup. Wet it and press it firmly onto a smooth, non-porous surface like tile, glass or a sealed floor, then twist slightly to seat it. Riding it lets you control depth and pace completely. The flexibility helps here too: it bends rather than jabbing if you change angle. On carpet or textured walls, use a smooth board as a base.

About the Large size

This dildo comes in four sizes and three colours. Large is a full-size option for people who already enjoy dildos and want a generous feel. Our supplier listing doesn't give measurements for each size, so if exact length and width matter to you, check the packaging or ask us before buying. If you're shopping for a first strap-on, a smaller size is usually the easier start. Purple is one of the three colour options and gives the realistic shape a playful look.

Care and lube

Wash the dildo with soap and water before first use. During play, use a generous amount of water-based lube, applied before and during sex. Silicone lube can damage silicone toys, so avoid it here. The dildo is 100% waterproof, which makes cleaning simple: spray an intimate or toy cleaner over the surface, rinse with clean water and let it air-dry fully. Store it apart from other silicone toys, and out of direct sun.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Sliding Soft Realistic Dildo
• Size: Large (one of four sizes)
• Material: soft-touch silicone
• Features: defined head, raised veins, textured balls, flexible shaft
• Base: strong suction cup
• Water resistance: waterproof
• Lube: water-based
• Colour: purple

See the full Strap-On-Me range and our strap-on harnesses, or read our dildo buying guide.