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Best For:
- Beginners exploring strap-on play
- Couples trying pegging for the first time
- Users who want size progression options
- Anyone seeking a complete starter system
- Partners looking to add vibration to harness play
The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit is a complete strap-on system designed to make first-time harness play approachable and comfortable. This kit includes two graduated silicone dildos, an adjustable fabric harness with interchangeable O-rings, and a bullet vibrator that tucks into a built-in pocket for optional stimulation during wear. The two-size progression lets you start with a smaller diameter and advance at your own pace, making it ideal for buyers who want flexibility without purchasing multiple separate pieces.
The harness adjusts to fit hips up to 60 inches and is machine-washable, addressing two common beginner concerns: fit anxiety and maintenance effort. The included Silk Small (4.25" insertable length, 0.8" diameter) and Silk Medium (5.5" insertable length, 1" diameter) are both made from Tantus's proprietary 100% platinum-cured silicone—body-safe, non-porous, and easy to sterilize between uses. The bullet vibrator adds sensation for the wearer, turning the harness into a dual-pleasure tool rather than a one-sided experience.
What this isn't: a rigid leather harness or a kit with overly ambitious sizing. The fabric construction prioritizes comfort and breathability over the aesthetic weight of leather, and the graduated sizes acknowledge that most beginners aren't ready for girthy toys on day one. If you're shopping for a single kit that removes the guesswork from strap-on play, this addresses the core questions—size, fit, safety, and shared pleasure—in one box.
Key Features
- Two platinum-cured silicone dildos: Silk Small (4.25" x 0.8") and Silk Medium (5.5" x 1")
- Adjustable fabric harness fits hips up to 60 inches
- Machine-washable harness for easy care
- Interchangeable O-ring system compatible with larger toys
- Integrated pocket holds included bullet vibrator for wearer stimulation
- 100% body-safe, non-porous silicone toys
- Complete beginner system—no additional purchases required to start
How to Use
Adjust the harness straps to sit comfortably on your hips, ensuring the O-ring aligns with your body. Insert your chosen dildo through the O-ring—start with the Silk Small if new to strap-on play. The bullet vibrator slots into the interior pocket and can be turned on for added sensation during wear. After use, wash the silicone toys with mild soap and water or a toy cleaner, and machine-wash the harness fabric on a gentle cycle.
Compatibility
- Dildo sizing: Included O-ring fits the Silk Small and Medium; swap for the larger O-ring (included) to use toys up to approximately 1.75" diameter
- Lubricant: Use water-based lube with the silicone dildos—avoid silicone-based lubricants which can degrade the toy material
- Harness fit: Adjustable to 60" hips; not recommended for hip measurements beyond this range
- Vibrator: Standard bullet vibrator included; replaceable with most bullet vibes under 1" diameter
Frequently Asked Questions
What sizes are the dildos in the Bend Over Beginner Kit? The kit includes two silicone dildos: Silk Small (4.25" insertable, 0.8" diameter) and Silk Medium (5.5" insertable, 1" diameter), allowing gradual size progression.
Can I use larger dildos with this harness? Yes—the kit includes an additional O-ring that accommodates toys up to approximately 1.75" in diameter, so you can upgrade to larger Tantus or compatible dildos later.
How do I clean the Bend Over harness? The fabric harness is machine-washable on a gentle cycle. The silicone dildos can be washed with mild soap and water or boiled for sterilization.
What lubricant works with the Tantus silicone dildos? Use water-based lubricant only with the included silicone toys—silicone-based lube can break down the toy material over time.
Does the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit ship discreetly to Canada? Yes—every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.