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The XR Graves Stainless Steel Speculum in Medium is a classic two-bladed exam-room design, made for adult medical play rather than the clinic. This stainless steel speculum works as a vaginal or anal spreader, opening with a screw so you can widen it a little at a time and hold it there, which is exactly what exam-style role-play calls for.
A Graves speculum has two curved blades joined at a hinge. Closed, the blades form a smooth, rounded bill that slides in easily with lube. As you turn the screw, the blades part and stay where you set them, so neither partner has to hold the opening by hand. That hands-free hold is what makes it popular for inspection scenes, voyeur play and for anyone who enjoys the feeling of being slowly opened.
The medium size is about 4 inches long and 1.25 inches wide. That width is similar to a modest dildo, so it suits people who are comfortable with average-size toys. If you're new to vaginal or anal stretching, start with the blades closed and simply get used to the feel of the steel before opening it at all. For anal-only play, the slimmer 3-prong anal speculum is easier to insert.
Lube the blades well and insert slowly with the speculum closed, with the handle angled in the direction that feels natural. Open it in small turns of the screw, pausing to check in after each one. Close it completely before removing it. Stainless steel is rigid, so never force it against resistance, and stop if anything feels sharp rather than full. For anal use, go slower than you would vaginally and use a thicker lube.
It suits medical-play fans who want a recognizable, realistic exam instrument, partners who enjoy inspection and voyeur scenes, and people who like the cool weight of metal. Because it can be used vaginally or anally, one tool covers both kinds of scene. It's less suited to anyone looking for sustained, wearable stretch, since a rigid speculum is uncomfortable to hold open for long; keep sessions short, and close it for a rest whenever the receiving partner asks.
Steel starts cool, which many people find part of the thrill. To warm it, run it under warm water for a minute and test it on your wrist. Gloves, a towel-lined table and a slow, clinical tone help set the scene. Agree on a safe word or signal before anyone gets into position.
Stainless steel is non-porous and easy to clean. Wash it in warm soapy water after every use, open the blades to reach the inner surfaces and the screw, rinse, and dry it fully with a lint-free cloth. It works with water-based, silicone and oil-based lubes. Use it vaginally or anally, but wash it thoroughly before switching between the two. Before each use, check the blade edges for burrs and make sure the screw turns smoothly; a drop of water and a wipe usually clears any lube build-up in the thread.
Also see the KI Miller adjustable speculum, or browse more BDSM and fetish gear.
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