LELO Tor 3 Vibrating Couples Cock Ring

The LELO TOR 3 is a vibrating cock ring for couples who want both people to feel the toy during sex. The stretchy silicone band sits at the base of the penis, and a motor on the top rests against the partner's clitoris or vulva with every thrust. It's rechargeable, waterproof and can be controlled with LELO's free app, so either partner can change the vibration from a phone. This listing is the Base Blue colour.

How a vibrating cock ring works

A ring worn at the base of the shaft slows blood flow out of the penis a little, so many people find they feel firmer and more sensitive while wearing one. The TOR 3 adds vibration on top: the motor sends a buzz down the shaft for the wearer and, more noticeably, into the partner's body at the moment of deepest contact. Positions where the base of the penis presses against the vulva, such as missionary, coital alignment or the partner on top leaning forward, get the most from it.

Who will enjoy it

The TOR 3 makes most sense for couples where the partner enjoys clitoral contact during penetration but finds it hard to get from thrusting alone. It also suits couples who like to hand control to each other, since the app lets the partner without the ring run the show. Solo, it adds a steady buzz to hand play or a stroker.

Fitting the TOR 3

LELO makes it one size, with a soft, stretchy silicone band. Add a drop of water-based lube, stretch it over the head and roll it down to the base of the shaft, with the motor on the upper side facing your partner. It should feel snug, never tight. Some people prefer it behind the testicles too; try both. Wear it for no more than about 20 minutes at a time, and take it off right away if it feels painful, cold or numb.

Buttons or app

Without the app, two buttons handle everything: + turns it on and raises the intensity across 12 levels, a double-click of + changes the pattern, and − turns it down. Press both together to turn it off. With the LELO app, pair it over Bluetooth by holding +, then choose a control mode; one lets your partner shake or tilt the phone to change the vibration. You can also save favourite settings to use offline and set auto-shutoff from 10 to 20 minutes.

Charging, noise and travel

Charge it for about two hours before first use. Standby lasts up to 90 days, so it's ready when you are. LELO lists a maximum of 60 dB. It's fully waterproof for the shower or bath, and a lock function stops it switching on in your bag.

Specifications

• Brand: LELO, TOR 3
• Material: silicone and ABS
• Size: about 46.7 × 22.2 × 60 mm; listed diameter 29 mm; one size, stretchy
• Control: 2 buttons, 12 intensity levels, or the LELO app (Bluetooth)
• Power: USB rechargeable, about 2 h charge, up to 90 days standby
• Noise: max 60 dB
• Waterproof: yes; travel lock
• In the box: TOR 3, charging cord, satin pouch, manual
• Colour: Base Blue. Also in Violet Dust and Black

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