Flogs, Paddles, Ticklers, & Whips

Floggers have many falls (tails) and spread the sensation. Paddles have a flat surface for a firm, broad smack. Crops have a small leather tip for precise taps. Whips have a single tail and are the most advanced. Ticklers sit at the gentle end.

A soft suede flogger, a wide padded paddle or a feather tickler. They give you a range from light to firmer without much technique. Fetissimo and Sex & Mischief have approachable options.

Suede feels softer, leather has more bite, silicone gives a sharper sting and is the easiest to clean, and wood paddles feel heavier and firmer. The material is listed on each product page.

Most people stick to well-padded areas such as the buttocks and upper thighs. Start lightly, build up slowly and keep talking. Read the guidance that comes with your toy, and see our BDSM guide.

Silicone and vinyl wipe clean with a toy cleaner. Leather and suede should be wiped with a damp cloth and left to air-dry, never soaked. Follow the care instructions for your product.