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The STRICT Neck-to-Wrist PU Leather Restraint Set is a collar and wrist-cuff combination that ties your partner's hands to their neck with an adjustable strap. These BDSM restraints suit couples who want real bondage without anchoring anyone to furniture, and the strap can run in front or behind the back. It's for people who have tried simple cuffs and want more control over posture and reach.

How neck-to-wrist bondage works

The set has three parts: a collar, two wrist cuffs and a centre strap that joins them. With the strap at the front, your partner's hands are held near their chest, so they can reach a little but not much. Shorten it and their hands stop just short of their own body, which is where the teasing starts. Run the strap down the back instead and the wrists sit behind them, a more restrained position that also opens up the chest and front of the body. Because everything connects to the collar, every movement of the hands is tied to posture, which gives a scene a strong sense of control without needing a bed frame or anchor point.

Sizing the collar and cuffs

The collar is 1.5 inches wide and adjusts from 12.5 to 16.5 inches around. The cuffs are wider at 2.5 inches and fit wrists from 7.5 to 10 inches. The centre strap adjusts from 10.5 to 16.5 inches in length. Measure your partner's neck and wrists with a soft tape before you buy; necks larger than 16.5 inches will be too big for this collar. Wide cuffs spread pressure better than narrow ones, so they're kinder to wrists when someone pulls against them.

Fitting and playing safely

Buckle the collar loose enough that two fingers slide underneath, then do the same with each cuff. Nothing should press on the front of the throat. Agree on a safe word, and a gesture too if your partner will be gagged. Never use the O-rings to pull someone by the neck or to tie the collar to a fixed point, since any weight or fall then lands on the throat. Check hands for coldness, tingling or colour change, and loosen the cuffs straight away if you notice any. Keep scenes short at first, especially with wrists behind the back, which tires the shoulders quickly.

PU leather, lining and hardware

The straps are vegan PU leather with a soft inner lining where they touch skin. The large O-rings are nickel-free metal and can take clips, chains or other bondage gear, or serve as a handle to draw your partner closer. Buckles let you set each strap to a precise fit rather than a fixed hole on a quick-release clip.

Cleaning and storage

After play, spray the straps and metal with a toy cleaner and wipe them down with a soft cloth. Let everything dry before you put it away. Store the set somewhere cool and dark, away from sharp or rough objects that could scratch the PU surface, and lay it flat or loosely coiled rather than tightly folded.

Specifications

  • Brand: STRICT (XR Brands)
  • Type: neck-to-wrist restraint set: collar, two wrist cuffs, connecting strap
  • Materials: PU leather with soft inner lining; nickel-free metal O-rings and buckles
  • Collar: 1.5" wide, adjusts 12.5"–16.5"
  • Cuffs: 2.5" wide, adjust 7.5"–10"
  • Centre strap: adjusts 10.5"–16.5"
  • Colour: Black with metal hardware

Browse more restraints and cuffs, see the rest of the STRICT range, or read our BDSM guide before your first scene.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about STRICT Neck-to-Wrist PU Leather Restraint Set.

Will the STRICT Neck-to-Wrist collar fit my partner?

The STRICT Neck-to-Wrist collar fits necks from 12.5 to 16.5 inches, and the cuffs fit wrists from 7.5 to 10 inches. Measure with a soft tape and allow two fingers of room. Many men's necks are over 16.5 inches, so check before ordering.

Are neck restraints safe in BDSM?

Neck restraints like the STRICT Neck-to-Wrist set are safe enough when the collar is loose, nothing pulls on the throat and the wearer is never left alone. Don't attach the collar O-ring to a bed or fixed point, and stop if your partner feels dizzy or short of breath.

Can I put the wrists behind the back with the Neck-to-Wrist set?

Yes. The cuffs on the STRICT Neck-to-Wrist set unbuckle so you can route the strap behind your partner. It's more intense on the shoulders, so start with five to ten minutes and lengthen the strap if their arms start to ache.

Is the STRICT Neck-to-Wrist set real leather?

No. The STRICT Neck-to-Wrist restraints are vegan PU leather, which looks like leather but wipes clean more easily and doesn't need conditioning. The lining is soft against skin, but PU won't soften with wear the way real leather does.

Can I clip other bondage gear to the Neck-to-Wrist restraints?

Yes. The nickel-free O-rings on the STRICT Neck-to-Wrist set take clips, chains, leashes and other restraints. Attach extras to the wrist cuffs, not the collar, so no pulling force goes to the neck. Our bondage cuffs collection has matching pieces.

What should I do if my partner's hands go numb in the restraints?

Loosen the STRICT cuffs straight away and bring the arms to a relaxed position. Numbness, tingling or cold, pale fingers mean the cuffs are too tight or the position has been held too long. Rub the hands gently and refit the cuffs a hole looser.

How do I clean PU leather bondage restraints?

Spray the STRICT restraints with toy cleaner, wipe the straps and metal with a soft cloth, and let them air-dry. Don't soak PU leather or put it in the washing machine, which can crack the surface and weaken the stitching.

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