Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-on ( Medium, Fuchsia)

The Strap-on-me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On in Medium is a vibrating strap on dildo you can wear without a harness. One end is a shaped bulb the wearer holds inside, the other is the shaft for their partner, and three separate motors run through it, all driven from a small rechargeable remote. That means the person wearing it feels the vibration too, rather than just doing the work. Medium is the middle-ground size in a range that runs from Small to XL, and fuchsia is the brightest of its three colours.

How this strap on dildo stays in without a harness

Instead of buckles and an O-ring, the wearer inserts the bulb end vaginally and grips it with the pelvic floor muscles, while the shaft sticks out in front. The neck between the two is bendable, so you can set the shaft's angle to suit your body and your partner's. It takes a few tries to get used to; start lying down or on your knees, with plenty of lube on the bulb, before trying more active positions. If you'd rather have extra security, Strap-on-me says it also fits its own harness, sold separately.

Three motors, one remote

Strap-on-me says the three independent motors are aimed at the clitoris, the G-spot and the P-spot, and each has its own button on the remote, so you can run one, two or all three at once. You get three vibration modes and three intensity levels, and the maker also lists a flapping setting for clitoral stimulation. The remote works up to about 10 metres away, so a partner can take over from across the room. Hold the on/off button for three seconds to start everything up or shut it all down.

Tips for your first session

Charge both pieces first and practise the remote buttons before anyone is undressed. Warm up with fingers or a smaller toy for the receiving partner. Let the wearer get used to holding the bulb before adding motion, and run just the motor they enjoy most at the start. Move slowly, add lube often, and agree on a word for "pause" so either of you can stop to adjust the angle.

Is Medium your size?

Medium suits people who already know they enjoy moderate fullness, for both the wearer and the receiving partner. If either of you is new to penetration with toys, or if this is your first strap-on for pegging, the Small in fuchsia is the gentler start. Strap-on-me doesn't print exact lengths for each size on its product page, but it does list weights: about 315 g for Medium against 295 g for Small.

Charging and care

Both the toy and the remote are rechargeable. A full charge takes around 120 minutes and gives roughly 70 minutes of play. The toy itself is IPX7 waterproof, but the remote isn't, so keep it dry. Wash the silicone with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner after each use, and dry it completely before charging.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-on-me, Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On
• Size: Medium (about 315 g)
• Material: silicone, bendable neck
• Motors: 3, each controlled separately
• Settings: 3 vibration modes, 3 intensities
• Remote: rechargeable, range up to 10 m (not waterproof)
• Charging: about 120 min; use time about 70 min
• Waterproof: IPX7 (toy only)
• Colour: fuchsia. Also in Night Blue and Black

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