Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On – Small, Fuchsia

The Small is the entry point to the Strap-on-me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On range, a harness-free, vibrating strap-on dildo controlled by a little remote. The wearer holds one shaped end inside; the other end is the shaft for their partner. Three motors spread vibration through the toy, so both people feel it. In bright fuchsia and the gentlest size of four, it's the one we'd suggest for couples trying a strapless toy, or pegging, for the first time.

Why start with the Small strap-on dildo

Both ends of a strapless toy go inside someone, so size matters twice. A smaller bulb is easier for the wearer to hold in place while learning, and a smaller shaft is kinder for a receiving partner who's new to penetration with toys. Strap-on-me doesn't print exact lengths for each size on its product page, but it lists the Small at about 295 g, a little lighter than the Medium. Once you know you want more, the Medium in fuchsia is the next step up.

Getting the angle right

The neck between the two ends is bendable, so you can set where the shaft points. A shallower angle often suits pegging from behind; a steeper upward curve can line up better face to face. Set it before you insert the bulb, then fine-tune. The wearer keeps it in by gently tightening the pelvic floor; it gets easier with practice. A pillow under the receiving partner's hips also changes the angle without touching the toy at all.

Remote and settings

The remote has a separate button for each of the three motors, so you can choose which parts vibrate. Strap-on-me says they target the clitoris, G-spot and P-spot. There are three vibration modes and three intensities, plus a flapping setting the maker lists for clitoral stimulation. Hold the on/off button for three seconds to start or stop everything at once. The range is up to about 10 metres, which is enough for a partner to tease from across the room.

A first-time checklist

Before the first session, charge the toy and the remote fully, wash the toy, and lay out a towel and a bottle of water-based lube. Talk through what each of you wants to try, and agree on a simple word for pausing. The wearer should practise inserting and holding the bulb alone first, maybe for a few minutes while walking around, so it feels familiar before a partner is involved. Start with one motor on the lowest level and add the others once you've found a rhythm. Keep sessions short at first; holding a strapless toy uses muscles that tire quickly, and they strengthen with regular use.

Battery and washing

Expect around 70 minutes of play from a 120-minute charge, for both the toy and the remote. The toy is rated IPX7 waterproof, so wash it well with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner; the remote isn't waterproof, so just wipe it. Dry everything before charging.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-on-me, Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On
• Size: Small (about 295 g)
• Material: silicone, bendable neck
• Motors: 3, each controlled separately
• Settings: 3 vibration modes, 3 intensities
• Remote: rechargeable, range up to 10 m (not waterproof)
• Charging: about 120 min; use time about 70 min
• Waterproof: IPX7 (toy only)
• Colour: fuchsia. Also in Night Blue

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