A double-ended dildo is one long toy with an insertable end on each side. Couples use it to share penetration at the same time, face to face or back to back. Solo users like the extra length as a handle or try both ends at once.
The right one depends mostly on length, firmness and material, and whether you want a simple flexible toy or one that vibrates. Here are five we carry, all in stock, from a $39 starter to a rechargeable thrusting vibe. Browse more in our double-ended dildo collection.
Quick answer: For a first double-ended dildo, start with the Blush B Yours 16" ($38.95). Choose the Dr. Skin 18" ($46.95) for more length and realistic detail, or the Dorcel Real Double Do ($103.99) for silicone. Couples who want vibration should look at the Together Double Delight ($184.95) or the Together Double Tap ($171.95).
What are the best double-ended dildos?
| Pick | Best for | Length / material | Price (CAD) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Blush B Yours 16" | First double dildo | 16 in, PVC | $38.95 |
| Blush Dr. Skin 18" | Realistic and extra long | 18 in, PVC | $46.95 |
| Dorcel Real Double Do | Silicone, experienced users | 42 cm, silicone | $103.99 |
| Together Double Delight | Thrusting and vibration | Silicone, rechargeable | $184.95 |
| Together Double Tap | Couples, clitoral contact | Silicone | $171.95 |
What should you look for in a double-ended dildo?
- Length. Most shared double dildos run 14 to 18 inches. Shorter ones bring partners closer together; longer ones give you more room to find an angle that works for both of you.
- Width. Check the diameter, not just the length. Our picks range from about 1.5 inches to 4 cm.
- Flexibility. A shared dildo needs to bend in the middle. Too stiff and it's awkward; too floppy and it's hard to control.
- Material. PVC models cost less and are non-porous. Silicone feels smoother and lasts longer but costs more. Either way, check the product page for care instructions.
For a wider look at sizes and materials, see our dildo buying guide.
1. Blush B Yours 16": best first double-ended dildo
The B Yours 16" Double Dildo gives each partner about 8 inches to work with, with a realistic head on each end and a width of 1.5 inches. It's firm enough to control but flexible enough to bend between two people.
It's made from phthalate-free, fragrance-free PVC that's non-porous, so it washes clean with soap and water or a toy cleaner. At under $40, it's a sensible way to find out whether double-ended play is for you.
2. Blush Dr. Skin 18": best for length and realism
The Dr. Skin 18" adds two inches of length and more realistic detailing, at 1.6 inches wide. That extra length makes it easier for couples to find a comfortable distance, and solo users can use the spare end as a handle.
Like the B Yours, it's non-porous, phthalate-free PVC. Prefer a different look? The B Yours 18" in purple ($47.95) is the same size in a translucent finish.
3. Dorcel Real Double Do: best silicone double dildo
The Dorcel Real Double Do is a 42 cm silicone double dildo with a tapered tip on each end and an even 4 cm width along the shaft. The silicone bends into different positions but holds its shape when you're both moving.
It's longer and wider than our first two picks, so it suits people who are already comfortable with insertion. It also comes in black at the same price. Use a water-based lube, since silicone lube can damage silicone toys.
4. Together Double Delight: best vibrating double-ended dildo
The Together Double Delight adds motion. Both ends are ribbed, and it has 10 levels of thrusting and vibration controlled from buttons in the middle, where either of you can reach them. It's made from flexible silicone and is rechargeable.
It works for grinding together or for solo play. If you like the idea of thrusting toys, our thrusting dildos and vibrators guide has more options.
5. Together Double Tap: best for couples who want clitoral contact
The Together Double Tap is shorter and designed specifically for two. One end vibrates, the other uses a rhythmic tapping motion, and a sphere in the middle sits where it can press against the clitoris for both partners while you grind together. The insertable lengths are 120 mm and 95 mm.
It's made from smooth silicone. Pick it over the Double Delight if you care more about shared external contact than length.
Is a double-ended dildo the same as a strapless strap-on?
Not quite. A double-ended dildo is usually straight or gently curved and the same on both ends. A strapless strap-on has a short bulb on one end that the wearer holds internally, and a longer shaft on the other for the partner. If one person wants to penetrate the other hands-free, a strapless strap-on or a harness and dildo is the better tool.
Prefer something solid and weighty for yourself? The Le Wand Contour is a stainless steel double-ended wand with a smooth bulb on one end and ridges on the other. It's aimed at experienced users rather than sharing.
How do you use a double-ended dildo with a partner?
- Lube both ends generously with a water-based lube, and keep the bottle within reach.
- Start one end at a time. Each partner inserts their end slowly before you try moving together.
- Try different positions. Face to face lying down, scissoring, or back to back on hands and knees all work. Hold the middle of the shaft to steady it until you find a rhythm.
- Talk as you go. It's easy for one person to push too deep without realising. Check in and keep a hand on the toy.
Double-ended dildos don't have a flared base, so don't use one anally unless the maker says it's suitable, and keep a firm hold on it. Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner after each use, and dry it completely.
Where should you go next?
See every option in our double-ended dildo collection, or browse XL dildos for longer single-ended toys. For more ways to play together, read our couples sex toys guide and our most realistic dildos guide. Every order ships in a plain box, and orders over $100 ship free within Canada; see our FAQ page.
