Harness Compatible Dildos

A flared base that is wider than the shaft. The shaft goes through the harness O-ring and the base sits behind it, holding the dildo in place.

Compare the dildo's shaft diameter with the ring size of your harness. Many harnesses come with several interchangeable rings, so one harness can fit different dildos. The ring sizes are listed on each harness page.

It comes down to fit and feel: jockstrap and briefs styles, adjustable strap styles, and leather or vegan materials. Strap-On-Me and Sportsheets make popular options. See all strap-on harnesses.

Yes, if it has a flared base. Remote-controlled models are easiest, since the controls aren't hidden behind the harness. Browse vibrating dildos and check the base on each product page.

Yes. Strapless strap-ons are held in place by the wearer, and double-ended dildos can be shared without one. If you'd like a harness and dildo bundled, see strap-ons.