XR Ashtray Ball Gag – Black

The XR Ashtray Ball Gag is a fetish ball gag with a twist: a short steel rod extends from the front of the ball and holds a small ashtray about 4 inches from the wearer's face. It's made for humiliation and objectification scenes, especially for people with a smoking fetish, where the submissive becomes a piece of furniture. Even without anything lit, the look alone carries the role-play.

How it's built

The ball is 1.87 inches across and sits on a leather strap that buckles behind the head, adjusting from 19.5 to 26.5 inches around. The ashtray is 3 inches across on the outside, with a 1.8-inch well, and it unscrews from the rod so it can be emptied without taking the gag off. It arrives bulk-packed in a bag rather than a retail box.

Safety first

A 1.87-inch ball is a medium-to-large gag, so it isn't a first gag for most people. The wearer can't speak, so agree on a hand signal or a dropped object as a stop sign. Never leave a gagged person alone, and take the gag out regularly to let the jaw rest. If you use it with lit cigarettes, remember that hot ash and embers are close to the face and eyes: keep the person still, never tip the tray, and have water nearby. Many couples keep it purely symbolic.

Is it the right pick for you?

It suits experienced players into objectification and smoking play. Anyone new to gags should start with a smaller, breathable ball from our gags collection.

Care

Unscrew the ashtray and wash it with warm soapy water. Wipe the ball with toy cleaner and the strap with a barely damp cloth, then let everything dry before storing.

Specifications

• Brand: XR
• Strap: leather, adjusts 19.5–26.5 in
• Ball: 1.87 in diameter
• Ashtray: stainless steel, 3 in outer diameter, 1.8 in inner diameter, 1.8 in tall, sits 4 in from the face, removable
• Packaging: bulk, no retail box
• Colour: black

Read our guide to exploring BDSM safely, or see more in our BDSM collection.