XR Ball Stretcher with Leash – Black

This XR ball stretcher with leash is a black PU leather band that wraps around the scrotum, paired with a 35.5-inch lead that clips to it. It's designed for power-exchange play: one partner wears the stretcher, the other holds the leash. Metal D-rings on the front and at the bottom give you places to attach the lead, small weights or other gear, so the same piece covers several scenes.

How the stretcher fits

The stretcher is a 2-inch-wide strap that adjusts up to 6 inches around. It wraps above the testicles, around the neck of the scrotum, and fastens snugly so they're held down and away from the body. Unlike a stretchy silicone ring, a strap lets you set the fit precisely, and you can open it to take it off without squeezing anything through a small hole. Put it on while soft and relaxed, close it so you can slide a finger underneath, and check it again once aroused.

Leash play

Clipped to the front D-ring, the leash becomes a constant reminder of who's in charge. The person holding it doesn't need to pull for it to work; a slack lead and a gesture is often enough. If you do apply tension, keep it slow, light and steady, and never yank. Walking a partner by the leash around the room is more about the symbolism than the pull.

The leash also works as a tether during other play. Hook it to a bedpost or chair leg with plenty of slack and the wearer is reminded not to wander, without any tension on the strap. Unclip it before anyone stands up or changes position, so it can't catch.

Adding weights

The lower D-rings take small clip-on weights for a steady downward stretch. XR doesn't include weights or state a maximum load, so begin with the lightest you can find, use them only while the wearer is standing or kneeling still, and remove them during movement. Weight plus a leash at the same time is a lot; build up to it over several sessions.

Safety and time limits

Keep first sessions to around 10 to 15 minutes. Stop at once if there's sharp pain, numbness, cold skin or a dark colour change. Agree on a safe word, and make sure the wearer can reach the buckle or ask for release at any point. Our guide to exploring BDSM safely has more on signals and aftercare.

Who this stretcher suits, and who should look elsewhere

It suits couples into pet play, humiliation or control who want a visible, adjustable piece. If you're looking for a gentle, solo ball stretcher to wear while moving around, a soft one like the Master Series Ball Stack is kinder. For a wider choice of sizes and materials, browse our ball stretchers.

Care and storage

PU leather shouldn't be soaked. Wipe the stretcher and leash with a damp cloth and a little mild soap after each use, dry with a towel and leave it to air out. Store it unbuckled and loosely coiled, away from heat and sunlight, which can make PU crack over time.

Specifications

• Brand: XR
• Stretcher: 2 in wide, adjusts up to 6 in circumference
• Leash: 35.5 in long
• Attachment points: D-ring on the front and at the bottom
• Materials: PU leather, metal
• Weights: not included
• Colour: black

Learn more in our article on what a ball stretcher does.