Spartacus Tough Love Bamboo Ruler Paddle

The Spartacus Tough Love paddle is a bamboo BDSM paddle in the shape of a ruler, with the words TOUGH LOVE across it. It plays on the strict-teacher theme, so it's as much a role-play prop as an impact toy, and the flat, narrow shape gives a crisp slap rather than a broad thud.

What a bamboo ruler feels like

Bamboo is light and rigid. A narrow, flat paddle like this concentrates force on a small strip, so even a light tap is noticeable and a firm swing stings. It's louder than a leather paddle, which many people enjoy as part of the scene. Start gently: a ruler shape can feel much sharper than its size suggests.

Using it safely

Talk first and agree on a stop word. Warm up with your hand before using the paddle, and aim only at well-padded areas: the buttocks and the backs of the upper thighs. Avoid the spine, the tailbone, the kidneys at the lower back, joints and the face. Strike flat rather than with the edge, build up slowly, and check in often. Bruising can show up later, so keep the intensity lower than you think on the first session.

Role play ideas

The ruler shape and the TOUGH LOVE wording make it a natural fit for teacher and student, or boss and employee, scenes. Setting a few simple rules and a count of strikes can add structure for people new to impact play.

Care

Wipe it with a damp cloth and mild soap after use, then dry it straight away. Don't soak bamboo or put it in a dishwasher, since water can warp it or lift the finish. Before each use, run your hand along the edges and check for splinters or cracks; if you find any, stop using it. Because bamboo is porous, keep it for use on one person or over clothing.

Specifications

• Brand: Spartacus
• Material: bamboo
• Shape: ruler
• Text: TOUGH LOVE

New to impact play? Read our guide to safe BDSM, or browse more paddles and floggers.