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The STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows is a wearable bondage harness that circles the waist and both thighs and links to a pair of wrist cuffs, so the wearer's hands can be held at their back. It's made from black vegan PU leather with gold-tone buckles, and little bows sit at the backs of the thighs. This M/L size fits waists from 26 to 42 inches, and the whole set suits a submissive partner who likes to feel bound and on display at the same time.
There are three parts that work as one. The waist strap goes on first and acts as the anchor. Each thigh strap buckles around the upper leg, with a small bow on the back. The wrist cuffs connect to the harness, and once they're closed, the hands rest behind the body near the waist. The wearer can still kneel, lie down or bend over, but their arms stay out of the way. Every strap adjusts with buckle and holes, so the fit can be tuned in a few seconds.
This size is generous. The waist strap adjusts from 26 to 42 inches around, the thigh straps from 13 to 26 inches, and the wrist cuffs from 5.75 to 10.25 inches. Measure the narrowest part of the waist and the fullest part of the upper thigh with a soft tape. If you're near the bottom end of the range, the extra strap length tucks behind the buckle. Near the top end, try it on before a scene so you know which holes to use.
Snug should never mean tight. You should be able to slide a finger under each strap and inside each wrist cuff. Arms pulled behind the back get tired quicker than you'd expect, so keep the first session short and check the wearer's hands every few minutes; cold, pale or tingling fingers mean it's time to loosen or release. Agree on a safe word before anything gets buckled, and keep the cuffs within the dominant partner's reach so they can come off at once.
The harness changes how the wearer holds themselves, which is half the fun. With the wrists secured, they can kneel in front of their partner, lie face down across the bed, or simply stand while being looked at. Add a blindfold to make every touch a surprise, or a light flogger once the wearer is settled. Taking the harness off slowly, strap by strap, makes a gentle end to the scene, and a few minutes of closeness afterwards helps both partners come down from it. Talk about what worked while it's fresh.
PU faux leather is vegan, lighter than real leather and easy to wipe down. It doesn't need conditioning, but it shouldn't be soaked. After use, wipe any part that touched skin or lube with a soft cloth and toy cleaner, then let it air-dry before you store it flat. The gold-coloured buckles are nickel-free metal.
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Helpful answers about STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows – M/L – Black.
No. The STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows is a restraint harness: it holds the wrists to the waist and has no O-ring for a dildo. If you're looking to wear a dildo, browse our strap-on harnesses instead.
The M/L size fits a waist of 26 to 42 inches and thighs of 13 to 26 inches. Measure both with a soft tape before ordering. Wrist cuffs adjust from 5.75 to 10.25 inches, which covers most adult wrists.
You can fasten the waist and thigh straps of the STRICT harness on your own, but closing the wrist cuffs behind your back is difficult alone. It's easier, and safer, to let a partner do the cuffs so someone is ready to release them.
With hands behind the back, 15 to 30 minutes is a sensible first limit in the STRICT harness. Shoulders tire and hands can go numb. Check fingers regularly and release the cuffs straight away at any tingling, coldness or pain.
Yes. The STRICT harness is made of PU faux leather rather than animal leather. The buckles are nickel-free metal, which helps if nickel bothers your skin.
Wipe the STRICT harness with a soft, damp cloth and a little toy cleaner, focusing on the cuffs and anything that touched lube. Don't soak it or use harsh solvents. Air-dry it before storing flat, away from direct sunlight.
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