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The STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows wraps the waist and thighs and holds the wrists behind the back, so the wearer is restrained without any extra cuffs or rope. It's a pink PU faux leather bondage harness with silver-tone, nickel-free buckles and small bows on the backs of the thighs, a sweet finish for submissive dress-up and role play. This is the M/L size, adjustable at every strap.

How the harness holds you

This is a wearable restraint rather than a separate set of cuffs. A strap wraps the waist, two straps circle the thighs, and two wrist cuffs connect to the harness so the wearer's hands are drawn behind the back. Once it's all buckled, the wearer can kneel, stand or lie down while staying restrained, and the partner has handles to guide them. The little bows sit on the backs of the thighs, a playful detail that turns the look into something closer to a wrapped gift than heavy gear.

Sizing the M/L

Every strap adjusts with buckles and holes. In this M/L size the waist fits 26 to 42 inches around, the thighs 13 to 26 inches and the wrist cuffs 5.75 to 10.25 inches. Measure at your natural waist, around the fullest part of the upper thigh, and around the wrist just above the bone. If you fall near the top of any range, it will still close, just with less room to fine-tune. As with any restraint, snug is right and tight is not: you should be able to slide a finger under each strap.

Putting it on and setting the scene

You can buckle the waist and thigh straps yourself, which some people enjoy as part of getting into the mood, but the wrist cuffs are much easier for a partner to close. Doing it together also builds anticipation. Agree on a safe word, or a hand signal if speaking might be difficult, before the wrists are restrained. Positions with hands behind the back put the shoulders under strain, so keep early scenes short and change position if arms start to ache. Check for tingling, numbness or cold fingers regularly, and release the wrists straight away if they appear. Never leave a restrained partner alone.

Materials and comfort

The harness is made from pink PU faux leather, which is vegan-friendly and durable. The silver-coloured buckles on the wrist cuffs are nickel-free metal. PU doesn't stretch much, so the size you set is the size it stays during play, which keeps the feel consistent from start to finish. If nickel tends to irritate your skin, the nickel-free hardware is a useful detail to know about.

Cleaning

After each use, spot clean the straps with a soft cloth and a toy cleaner, paying attention to the inner surfaces that touched skin. Avoid soaking the PU. Let it air-dry fully, then store it loosely so the straps don't crease.

Specifications

  • Brand: STRICT, Bondage Harness with Bows
  • Type: waist, thigh and wrist restraint harness with decorative bows
  • Size: M/L
  • Waist: adjusts from 26" to 42" circumference
  • Thighs: adjust from 13" to 26" circumference
  • Wrist cuffs: adjust from 5.75" to 10.25" circumference
  • Materials: PU faux leather (vegan-friendly), nickel-free metal buckles
  • Colour: Pink with silver-tone buckles

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Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows – M/L – Pink.

What does a bondage harness do?

It restrains the body through straps worn around it rather than tying limbs to something else. This one holds the wrists behind the back via cuffs linked to waist and thigh straps. It's as much about the look and feeling of being bound as it is about restricting movement.

What size is the STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows M/L?

In M/L, the STRICT harness waist adjusts from 26 to 42 inches, the thighs from 13 to 26 inches and the wrist cuffs from 5.75 to 10.25 inches. Measure before you buy; if two of your measurements fall outside those ranges, it won't sit properly.

Can I wear the STRICT harness with lingerie or clothes?

Yes. The STRICT harness sits over lingerie, a bodysuit or bare skin, and the pink straps and bows suit soft, playful outfits. Thin fabric under the straps can reduce rubbing during longer scenes. Avoid bulky clothing, which changes how the straps sit.

How long can I stay in BDSM restraints like this harness?

Keep early sessions in the STRICT harness short, around 10 to 20 minutes with hands behind the back, then build up if it stays comfortable. Shoulders tire first. Change position or release the wrists if arms ache, tingle or go cold.

Are the STRICT harness wrist cuffs easy to release?

Yes. The wrist cuffs on the STRICT harness close with nickel-free buckles rather than locks, so a partner can undo them quickly. Keep a pair of safety shears nearby during any bondage as a backup, especially in a new position.

How do I clean the STRICT harness?

Wipe the STRICT harness with a soft cloth and a toy cleaner after each use, especially the inside of the straps and cuffs. Don't soak or machine wash the PU leather. Air-dry it fully and store it loose to keep the straps and bows in shape.

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