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The STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows is a body bondage harness that straps around the waist and both thighs, with wrist cuffs that hold the hands behind the back. Small decorative bows sit at the backs of the thighs, which gives the black faux-leather straps a playful, gift-wrapped look. This XL/2XL size adjusts to fit waists from 35 to 52 inches, and every strap closes with nickel-free gold-tone buckles.
The harness has three parts that work together. A waist strap circles the body, two thigh straps wrap the upper legs, and a pair of wrist cuffs links into the set so the hands rest behind the back. The result is a light form of restraint: you can kneel, lie down or bend over, but your hands stay out of play. Many couples like it as an introduction to bondage, because it looks dramatic and feels secure without the complexity of rope.
Every strap adjusts with a buckle and a row of holes. In this XL/2XL size, the waist strap goes from 35 to 52 inches, the thigh straps from 21.5 to 37.5 inches, and the wrist cuffs from 5.75 to 10.25 inches. Measure around your natural waist, the fullest part of your upper thigh and your wrist before ordering. If you're near the lower end of every range, a smaller size may sit better. Set the waist and thighs first, while your hands are still free, and leave the cuffs until last.
Snug is good. Tight is not. You should be able to slide a finger under every strap and cuff. Check in on hands and feet during the scene: tingling, coldness, numbness or a change in skin colour all mean it's time to loosen up. Agree on a safe word or, since hands are bound, a safe gesture such as dropping a held object. Never leave a restrained person alone, and keep the buckles within reach of the partner who isn't cuffed.
The straps are PU faux leather, so the harness is vegan-friendly and easy to wipe down. The gold-coloured metal hardware is nickel-free, which suits anyone whose skin reacts to cheap buckles. PU doesn't like soaking, so spot-clean after each use with a soft cloth and a little toy cleaner, focusing on the inside of the cuffs and anywhere that touched lube or sweat. Let it dry completely, then store it flat or loosely coiled so the straps don't crease.
Because the hands are behind the back, this restraint harness pairs well with blindfolds, light impact play or a partner-held vibrator. Some people wear it under clothing as a private signal for the evening ahead. Go slowly the first time and keep scenes short until you both know how it feels. Afterwards, take the cuffs off first, then the thigh and waist straps, and give the person who was restrained a few minutes to stretch.
See the full STRICT range and more bondage restraints and cuffs, or read our guide to exploring BDSM safely.
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