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The STRICT Bondage Harness with Bows is a pink bondage harness that wraps the waist, both thighs and both wrists, with little bows sitting at the backs of the thighs. This XL/2XL size fits waists from 35 to 52 inches, and the soft PU faux leather with silver-tone buckles makes it a pretty, approachable piece of restraint gear for submissive play and for couples new to bondage.
Three parts work together: a waist strap, a strap around each thigh and a pair of wrist cuffs. Worn as intended, the wrists end up behind the back, which leaves the wearer kneeling or lying with their hands out of use and their body open to their partner. It's restraint you feel all over without anything heavy, and every strap closes with a buckle, so whoever does the buckling gets a slow, deliberate moment with each one. The bows at the back of the thighs are purely decorative, but they change the mood: it looks more like a gift being presented than hardcore gear, which many first-time submissives find easier to say yes to. It also works under a robe or lingerie as a surprise, then tightened once the scene begins.
Measure before you order. The waist adjusts from 35 to 52 inches around, the thigh straps from 21.5 to 37.5 inches, and the wrist cuffs from 5.75 to 10.25 inches. Measure your thighs around the fullest part, where the straps will sit, and your wrist just above the wrist bone. If you're near the bottom of these ranges, the smaller size may suit you better, since straps fastened on their tightest hole leave a long tail. The goal is snug, not tight: you should be able to slide a finger under every strap, and hands should stay warm and pink.
Behind-the-back cuffs put pressure on the shoulders over time, so start with short scenes and let the wearer change position when they need to. Agree on a safe word, plus a non-verbal signal in case speaking becomes difficult. Check the hands every few minutes for tingling, coldness or colour change, and loosen the straps straight away if any of those appear. Keep a way to undo the buckles within easy reach, and never leave a restrained partner alone. Afterwards, take a few minutes together out of the restraints, with water and a blanket nearby; coming down gently is part of the scene too.
The straps are PU faux leather, so the harness is vegan and needs no leather conditioner. The metal hardware is nickel-free, which matters if nickel jewellery irritates your skin. After use, spot-clean with a soft cloth and a little toy cleaner rather than soaking it, then let it air-dry before storing. Lay it flat or hang it from a hook so the straps don't crease sharply, and keep it away from heat, which can crack PU over time.
See more from STRICT, browse our restraints and bondage cuffs, or read our BDSM safety guide.
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