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Boy Butter Original Formula is a coconut oil lube whipped into a thick cream that melts clear on the skin. It's a long-time favourite for masturbation and anal play, because it stays slick far longer than water-based gels and washes away with water. This 16 oz tub suits people who use a lot of lube and are tired of reapplying.
Straight from the tub, Boy Butter looks like a thick white cream. Warm it between your fingers and it melts into a light, smooth layer that turns clear on contact with skin. That texture is the reason many people choose it for masturbation: it gives a cushioned, slightly grippy glide that feels more like skin than a thin, watery gel. It also lasts. Boy Butter says it holds up as long as silicone formulas, so you reapply far less than with a water-based lube.
A little goes a long way. Start with a fingertip-sized scoop, rub it between your palms for a few seconds so it softens, then apply. If it starts to feel tacky after a long session, a few drops of water bring the glide back rather than more product. Because the cream is thick, it stays where you put it and doesn't run down your wrist or onto the sheets the way a thin liquid does.
It's at home with hand play and strokers, long solo sessions, anal play and massage, and the 16 oz tub makes it practical for frequent use. A scoop warms quickly in the hand and spreads evenly over a large area, which is why it doubles as a massage cream for backs, shoulders and thighs before things move on. Boy Butter calls it edible and non-toxic, so getting some in your mouth during foreplay isn't a problem, though it isn't flavoured.
The important limit: Boy Butter is not compatible with latex condoms, because oil weakens latex. If you use condoms, choose non-latex ones such as polyurethane or polyisoprene, or use a water-based lube instead. Boy Butter lists the formula as safe with silicone toys, which sets it apart from silicone lubes. The ingredients do include a small amount of phenyl trimethicone, a silicone, so if you're unsure about a particular toy, test it on a small area first.
Despite the oil base, Boy Butter washes off skin and fabrics with water, no special detergent needed. Because it's oil-based, a little can still feel slick on smooth floors or in the shower, so wipe up spills. Close the lid tightly after use and keep the tub at room temperature; it can firm up in the cold and soften in the heat, which is normal and doesn't affect how it works. Use clean, dry fingers or a small spatula to scoop it out, so water and lint don't end up in the tub.
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Helpful answers about Boy Butter Original Formula Coconut Oil Lubricant – 16 oz.
Not with latex condoms. Boy Butter Original is oil-based, and oil weakens latex and can cause breakage. It can be used with non-latex condoms made from polyurethane or polyisoprene. If you rely on latex, use a water-based lube for penetrative sex.
Boy Butter says the Original Formula is safe with silicone toys. Its formula does contain a little phenyl trimethicone, a silicone ingredient, so patch-test it on a hidden spot of a toy you care about. Wash toys with warm soapy water afterwards to remove the oil.
Yes, it's one of the most popular choices for hand play. Boy Butter Original's creamy texture gives a cushioned glide that lasts, so you won't keep reaching for the tub. It also works inside strokers, though check the stroker maker's lube advice first.
You want a thick, long-lasting lube, and Boy Butter Original is a common pick for anal play because it doesn't dry out quickly. Just remember it isn't latex-safe. If you use latex condoms, a thick water-based gel from our anal lubes is the safer choice.
Boy Butter describes the Original Formula as edible and non-toxic, so it's fine if some ends up in your mouth during oral or foreplay. It's unflavoured and isn't meant to be eaten. For taste, a flavoured water-based lube is a better match.
Boy Butter says it washes from skin and fabrics with water. Rinse marks in warm water before they set, then launder as usual. A towel under you during use saves some effort, and wipe any drips off hard floors, since oil-based lube is slippery.
Coconut-based lubes react to temperature. Boy Butter firms up in a cool room and softens in a warm one, and that's normal. Warm a scoop in your hands before use, and store the 16 oz tub with the lid closed at room temperature.
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