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The Dame Aer in periwinkle is a compact clitoral stimulator that works with air instead of direct vibration. Its soft, flexible mouth forms a gentle seal around the clitoris and pushes rhythmic pulses of air through it, so you feel pressure and flutter without anything rubbing on the skin. Dame designed it to fit the hand comfortably and keep the controls simple, which makes it an easy first air-pulse toy.
Instead of a motor buzzing against you, the Aer changes the air pressure inside its mouth in quick waves. The sensation is often described as a mix of gentle suction and tapping, and because nothing moves against the skin, it can feel less overwhelming than a strong vibrator. Some people come quickly with it; others find it takes a little positioning practice to get the seal right.
There are 5 intensity levels and 5 pattern modes, so 25 combinations in all. Start at the lowest intensity with a steady pattern while you find the right spot, then move up. Since the toy only works when the mouth is sealed, small adjustments in angle make a big difference: tilt it slightly or press a little more firmly if the sensation fades.
The Aer is 4.66 inches tall, 1.46 inches wide and 1.95 inches from mouth to back, small enough to sit in your palm or slip into a bedside drawer. The flexible mouth opening measures 0.5 by 0.8 inches, which surrounds the clitoral glans without needing perfect aim. It is made of silicone and comes in a storage bag.
The Aer suits people who enjoy clitoral stimulation but find direct vibration too strong or numbing, and anyone who wants a small toy that packs easily for travel. If you prefer broad, rumbly vibration across the whole vulva, a wand or lay-on vibrator will feel more familiar. It is shaped for the clitoris only, so it isn't meant for internal use.
The Aer is USB rechargeable. A full charge takes about 2 hours and gives up to 1.5 hours of use at the highest setting, longer on lower ones. Dame lists it as waterproof, so you can take it into the bath or shower. Under water, the air-pulse sensation changes because the mouth fills with water instead of air; try it and see which you prefer.
A little water-based lube around the rim of the mouth helps create the seal. Dame recommends against silicone lube with its silicone toys. After use, rinse the mouth under warm running water, squeezing it gently to flush the opening, then wash the outside with mild soap or toy cleaner. Let the mouth air-dry facing down.
Compare other air-pulse designs in our clitoral suction vibrators, or browse more Dame toys.
Helpful answers about Dame Aer Air-Pulse Clitoral Stimulator – Periwinkle.
Add a little water-based lube to the rim of the mouth, part the labia, and place the opening over the clitoris so it forms a light seal. Switch on at the lowest setting, then adjust angle and pressure until you feel the pulses clearly before increasing intensity.
A regular vibrator transmits buzzing through contact. An air-pulse toy like the Aer creates pressure waves in the air around the clitoris, so there is no rubbing. Many people find it more intense in a different way, and some who find vibration numbing prefer air pulse.
Dame doesn't publish a decibel rating. Air-pulse toys are generally quieter than wands, and the noise is muffled further when the mouth is sealed against the body, but higher settings will be audible in a silent room.
Yes, Dame lists it as waterproof. Bear in mind that underwater the mouth fills with water rather than air, which changes the feel. Some people love it; others prefer using it dry and just rinsing it afterwards.
Water-based lube. Dame advises against silicone lube with its silicone toys. Only a small amount is needed around the rim of the mouth; too much can break the seal.
No, only the colour changes. Both have the same settings, size and battery life. The papaya Aer is a warm orange shade; periwinkle is a soft blue-lilac.
It works well during foreplay or alongside penetration in positions with space between bodies, such as spooning or rear-entry, where you or your partner can hold it in place. Our guide to sex toys for women has more ideas.
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