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The Dame Aer in periwinkle is a compact clitoral stimulator that works with air instead of direct vibration. Its soft, flexible mouth forms a gentle seal around the clitoris and pushes rhythmic pulses of air through it, so you feel pressure and flutter without anything rubbing on the skin. Dame designed it to fit the hand comfortably and keep the controls simple, which makes it an easy first air-pulse toy.

How an air-pulse clitoral stimulator feels

Instead of a motor buzzing against you, the Aer changes the air pressure inside its mouth in quick waves. The sensation is often described as a mix of gentle suction and tapping, and because nothing moves against the skin, it can feel less overwhelming than a strong vibrator. Some people come quickly with it; others find it takes a little positioning practice to get the seal right.

Settings and control

There are 5 intensity levels and 5 pattern modes, so 25 combinations in all. Start at the lowest intensity with a steady pattern while you find the right spot, then move up. Since the toy only works when the mouth is sealed, small adjustments in angle make a big difference: tilt it slightly or press a little more firmly if the sensation fades.

Size and shape of this clitoral suction toy

The Aer is 4.66 inches tall, 1.46 inches wide and 1.95 inches from mouth to back, small enough to sit in your palm or slip into a bedside drawer. The flexible mouth opening measures 0.5 by 0.8 inches, which surrounds the clitoral glans without needing perfect aim. It is made of silicone and comes in a storage bag.

Who it suits

The Aer suits people who enjoy clitoral stimulation but find direct vibration too strong or numbing, and anyone who wants a small toy that packs easily for travel. If you prefer broad, rumbly vibration across the whole vulva, a wand or lay-on vibrator will feel more familiar. It is shaped for the clitoris only, so it isn't meant for internal use.

Charging and water

The Aer is USB rechargeable. A full charge takes about 2 hours and gives up to 1.5 hours of use at the highest setting, longer on lower ones. Dame lists it as waterproof, so you can take it into the bath or shower. Under water, the air-pulse sensation changes because the mouth fills with water instead of air; try it and see which you prefer.

Lube and cleaning

A little water-based lube around the rim of the mouth helps create the seal. Dame recommends against silicone lube with its silicone toys. After use, rinse the mouth under warm running water, squeezing it gently to flush the opening, then wash the outside with mild soap or toy cleaner. Let the mouth air-dry facing down.

Specifications

  • Brand: Dame, Aer
  • Type: air-pulse clitoral stimulator
  • Material: silicone
  • Settings: 5 intensity levels, 5 pattern modes
  • Dimensions: 4.66 in high × 1.46 in wide × 1.95 in mouth to back; mouth opening 0.5 × 0.8 in
  • Run time: up to 1.5 hours at the highest setting
  • Charge time: about 2 hours, USB rechargeable
  • Waterproof
  • Includes: Aer, charging cable, storage bag, user manual
  • Warranty: 3 years
  • Colour: periwinkle. Also in papaya

Compare other air-pulse designs in our clitoral suction vibrators, or browse more Dame toys.

Helpful Information

Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about Dame Aer Air-Pulse Clitoral Stimulator – Periwinkle.

How do you use a clitoral stimulator like the Aer?

Add a little water-based lube to the rim of the mouth, part the labia, and place the opening over the clitoris so it forms a light seal. Switch on at the lowest setting, then adjust angle and pressure until you feel the pulses clearly before increasing intensity.

What's the difference between an air pulse vibrator and a regular vibrator?

A regular vibrator transmits buzzing through contact. An air-pulse toy like the Aer creates pressure waves in the air around the clitoris, so there is no rubbing. Many people find it more intense in a different way, and some who find vibration numbing prefer air pulse.

Is the Dame Aer quiet?

Dame doesn't publish a decibel rating. Air-pulse toys are generally quieter than wands, and the noise is muffled further when the mouth is sealed against the body, but higher settings will be audible in a silent room.

Can I use the Aer in the bath?

Yes, Dame lists it as waterproof. Bear in mind that underwater the mouth fills with water rather than air, which changes the feel. Some people love it; others prefer using it dry and just rinsing it afterwards.

Which lube is safe for the Dame Aer?

Water-based lube. Dame advises against silicone lube with its silicone toys. Only a small amount is needed around the rim of the mouth; too much can break the seal.

Is periwinkle different from the papaya version?

No, only the colour changes. Both have the same settings, size and battery life. The papaya Aer is a warm orange shade; periwinkle is a soft blue-lilac.

Can I use it during sex with a partner?

It works well during foreplay or alongside penetration in positions with space between bodies, such as spooning or rear-entry, where you or your partner can hold it in place. Our guide to sex toys for women has more ideas.

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