Dame Products Pillo Wedge Pillow - Oat

The Dame Pillo in Oat is a sex wedge pillow that looks like a plain linen-toned cushion until you need it. Made by Dame Products, it is a foam wedge 15 inches long, 18 inches wide and 7 inches high, wrapped in a removable cotton cover. It suits couples and solo players who want an easy way to change angles, take pressure off knees and wrists, and keep the bed tidy when it is not in use.

What a sex wedge pillow actually changes

A wedge lifts the hips or the torso and holds them there, so neither partner has to. In missionary, sliding the Pillo under the receiving partner's hips tilts the pelvis upward, which changes the angle of penetration and often makes deeper contact easier and more comfortable. Lying face down over it raises the hips for rear entry without anyone having to hold themselves up on their hands and knees. For oral sex, a raised pelvis means the giving partner is not craning their neck. For solo play, it props you up so a wand or a toy reaches where you want it without tired arms. If you have stiff hips, sore knees or a tired lower back, letting foam take the weight can be the difference between a position you avoid and one you enjoy.

Size and firmness

At 7 inches high, the Pillo gives a noticeable lift without feeling like furniture. It is 18 inches wide, enough for the hips to sit across it, and 15 inches long, so it fits on most beds next to normal pillows. The core is polyurethane foam, which holds its shape under body weight instead of flattening the way a stack of bed pillows does. If you want a steeper angle, you can turn it around so the high end faces the other way, or pair it with a regular pillow under the low end.

A cover you can actually wash

The outer shell is 100% cotton and comes off for washing. Dame says to machine-wash it on cool and hang it to dry, so skip the dryer, which can shrink cotton. Under the cotton is a water-resistant nylon liner that sits between the cover and the foam. It helps protect the core from lube, massage oil and other spills, which matters because foam cannot be washed. If you use a lot of oil or lube, a towel over the top is still a good habit.

Designed to stay out on the bed

The neutral Oat colour and simple shape mean the Pillo can live on the bed or a reading chair and pass as a back cushion. There are no straps, handles or glossy vinyl to give it away. It is light enough to move with one hand, and the shape is useful outside the bedroom too, for reading in bed or putting your feet up. Because it is foam rather than an inflatable, there is nothing to pump up, no valve to leak and no squeaky plastic noise when you move on it.

Specifications

• Brand: Dame Products, Pillo
• Type: wedge-shaped positioning pillow
• Dimensions: 15" L x 18" W x 7" H
• Core: polyurethane foam
• Cover: 100% cotton, removable, machine-wash cool, hang to dry
• Liner: water-resistant nylon
• Colour: Oat

See more from Dame, compare our sex wedges and ramps, or read our guide to sex furniture and chairs.