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The Tantus Destiny Super Soft is a silicone dildo with a squishy, forgiving feel, a rounded head angled for G-spot or P-spot play, testicles for a more realistic look, and a low base made for harness use. Tantus pours it from its own soft silicone formula, so it has noticeably more give than the brand's firm toys. With 5 inches insertable and a 2-inch maximum width, it works for newcomers and for experienced users who simply prefer something softer.
Tantus makes toys in several firmness grades, and Super Soft is the gentlest. Squeeze the shaft and it compresses easily, then springs back. In use, that softness lets the toy yield a little at curves and pressure points rather than pushing back hard. People who find firm silicone too unyielding, or who want a dildo that feels less like an object and more like skin, tend to like this grade. The trade-off is less precise pressure: if you want very firm, targeted contact on the G-spot, a firmer toy does that better.
The shaft tapers to 1.5 inches near the tip and widens to 2 inches at its fullest, with 5 inches of insertable length before the testicles. The head is rounded and slightly curved, which makes it easy to aim towards the front wall for G-spot play or towards the prostate for anal play. Because the material is soft, the 2-inch maximum feels less demanding than the same width in a firm toy, but warm up first and use plenty of lube all the same.
The base sits low and flat behind the testicles, which Tantus designed for harness play. It fits most harnesses with an O-ring that holds a 2-inch shaft; the testicles sit behind the ring and keep it steady during thrusting. Find a match in our strap-on harnesses. By hand, the testicles double as a grip. Soft dildos bend a little in a harness, so angle your hips rather than relying on the toy to stay rigid.
The Destiny suits people who want a realistic-looking toy without a hard, unforgiving core, and couples starting out with a harness who want a gentle first strap-on dildo. It's also a good choice for anyone who has found firm toys uncomfortable at the entrance. It's less suited to people who want strong, pinpoint G-spot pressure or a toy that holds a rigid angle in a harness; Tantus's firmer grades do those jobs better.
Tantus says the Destiny can be boiled, bleached or run through the dishwasher, which makes sanitising simple. For everyday cleaning, warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner is enough. Pure silicone is non-porous, so it doesn't hold onto smells or residue. Use a water-based lube to protect the soft surface, and store it apart from other silicone toys, ideally in a pouch, as soft silicone picks up lint easily.
Unsure about size or firmness? Read our dildo buying guide, or see more soft silicone dildos and the full Tantus range.
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