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The XR Easy Access Spreader Bar System is a padded restraint bar with four cuffs fixed along it: two for the ankles near the ends and two for the wrists closer to the middle. Unlike a plain metal spreader bar that only holds the legs apart, this one ties wrists to ankles, which puts the wearer into a folded, open position and keeps them there without any rope work.
The bar is 22 inches long. The ankle cuffs sit 16 inches apart and the wrist cuffs 9 inches apart, so the hands rest between the feet. That spacing suits positions where the wearer lies on their back with knees bent, or kneels and leans forward with hands reaching back toward the ankles. Both give a partner easy access, which is where the name comes from. The bar is metal-reinforced under a nylon cover, so it holds its shape rather than bending when the wearer pulls against it.
Each cuff is heavy-duty nylon outside with a neoprene lining, the same soft, slightly spongy material used in wetsuits. They close with Velcro and measure 15 inches around at the largest, so they fit most wrists and ankles. Velcro is quick to fasten and quick to release, which matters in a restraint: if someone needs out, you can pull every cuff open in seconds without keys or buckles. The flip side is that a strong, determined wearer can sometimes work Velcro loose. That's often fine for playful scenes, and less so if you want a feeling of being truly locked in.
Fasten the ankle cuffs first while the wearer is comfortable, then guide the wrists into place. Leave enough slack to slide one finger under each cuff, and check hands and feet now and then for tingling or cold. The folded position puts weight on the hips and lower back, so keep first sessions short and use a pillow under the hips if lying on the back. Agree a stop word, and remember the wearer can't easily reposition themselves, so you'll need to help them move or get up.
This bar suits couples who want a simple, ready-to-use restraint for oral sex, toy play or penetration, without learning knots or buying a whole kit. It's less suited to people with stiff hips, knees or shoulders, since the fixed spacing doesn't adjust. If you want to restrain someone flat on the bed instead, the Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit straps under the mattress and leaves the body stretched out rather than folded. For a wider choice, browse our restraints and bondage cuffs.
Wipe the nylon and neoprene with a damp cloth and mild soap, then let it air-dry fully before storing. Close the Velcro tabs onto themselves when you put it away, so they don't collect lint or snag other fabric.
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