Pink Elephant Extreme Driver Double-Ended Stainless Steel Bullet

The Pink Elephant Extreme Driver Bullet is a slim, double-ended dildo made from solid stainless steel, with a bullet-shaped end and enough length to hold one end while you use the other. Listed at 180 mm (7.08 in) long, 35 mm (1.37 in) at its widest point and 274 grams, it's a hand-held toy for controlled, deliberate strokes rather than a plug you wear. Despite the name, it doesn't vibrate; "bullet" describes the shape.

Why steel changes the feel

Stainless steel is perfectly rigid and very smooth. It doesn't bend under pressure, so every movement you make with your hand goes straight to where the toy is. That makes it easier to aim at a specific spot, and the polished surface glides with very little lube compared with silicone. The 274-gram weight also does some of the work: let it rest and it presses gently, or use it for slow, firm thrusts.

Using a double-ended dildo on your own or together

With two usable ends, you can switch between sensations without putting the toy down, or hand one end to a partner so they control the pace. For anal play, hold it firmly at all times, because it has no flared base to stop it slipping in. Start with the narrower part of the toy, use plenty of lube and angle toward your belly button, following the natural curve of the body. Vaginally, the 35 mm widest point is a moderate size, and the rigid steel can make it easier to find a spot you like and stay on it.

Whichever way you use it, go slowly at first. Steel gives no feedback through softness, so let your body tell you how much pressure is right. A towel underneath and a bottle of lube within reach make the session easier, because you'll want to reapply as you go, and a heavy steel toy is easier to set down on something soft than a bare sheet.

Bullet end or Bud end?

The Extreme Driver comes in two versions. This Bullet version is 180 mm and 274 grams. The Extreme Driver Bud is a little longer at 190 mm but lighter at 238 grams, with a bud-shaped end instead of the bullet tip. Both share the same 35 mm widest point, so the choice comes down to the tip shape you prefer.

Temperature, cleaning and storage

Steel takes on heat or cold quickly. Rinse it under warm water for a warm, solid feel, or use it at room temperature for a cool contrast. Skip boiling water and ice, which are too extreme against sensitive skin. After use, wash it with mild soap and warm water or toy cleaner, rinse well and dry with a soft cloth. It comes in a black velvet drawstring bag, which is a good place to keep it so it doesn't knock against other toys. Pink Elephant doesn't give boiling or dishwasher instructions, so keep cleaning to the sink.

Specifications

• Brand: Pink Elephant, Extreme Driver
• Material: stainless steel
• Type: double-ended, non-vibrating, with a bullet-shaped end
• Overall length: 7.08 in / 180 mm
• Widest point: 1.37 in / 35 mm (as listed)
• Weight: 9.66 oz / 274 g
• Power: none
• Packaging: black velvet bag with pink drawstring, no retail box
• Also available: Extreme Driver Bud

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