Your Cart

🚚 Discreet delivery across Canada🎁 Free gift on $100+ orders

Je Joue Ami is a three-piece set of silicone kegel balls for women who would rather start light and move up gradually than guess at a single weight. You get three graded pieces in the same deep purple, each with its own retrieval loop, so you can pick the one that suits you on a given day.

The three pieces, lightest to heaviest

The set runs in a deliberate order: the pieces get smaller as they get heavier. Ami 1 is a single soft ball, the largest of the three and the lightest at 47 g, with a listed girth of 4.3 in. Ami 2 is a double ball, still soft, weighing 78 g with a 3.9 in girth. Ami 3 is a firm double ball, the smallest at 3.6 in girth and the heaviest at 106 g. Je Joue numbers them 1 to 3 for a reason, and most people begin with Ami 1, moving on only once it feels familiar.

What the silicone is like

Each piece has a smooth, velvety silicone finish with no seams to catch. Ami 1 and Ami 2 have a little squish; Ami 3 feels solid in the hand. The loops are flexible silicone too, so they fold out of the way rather than poking. Je Joue states the set is vegan. There is no motor, battery or charging port, so nothing to switch on and nothing to keep dry.

How to insert, wear and remove kegel balls

Wash your hands and the piece first. Add a small amount of water-based lube to the ball only; too much makes it slippery and harder to keep in. Lie back with knees bent, or stand with one foot raised on the edge of the bath, and slide the ball in gently, much like a tampon, until it sits comfortably inside with the loop resting outside your body.

Then carry on with your day around the house. Begin with a short wear and lengthen it gradually as the feeling becomes familiar. If it starts to slide out, take it out and try another time.

To remove it, relax, find the loop and pull slowly and straight. If it feels stuck, take a breath, change position and try again. Never wear the balls during intercourse, and don't sleep with them in.

Cleaning and storage

Wash each piece in warm water with a mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner before and after use, paying attention to the point where the loop meets the ball. Let everything air-dry completely before you put it away. Keep the three pieces in their box or a clean pouch, apart from other silicone toys, since silicone attracts lint and soft pieces can stick to each other.

Who should skip them

The Ami set is for vaginal use only. The loops are not a flared base, so the balls are not suitable for anal play. If you have any medical questions about wearing internal weights, ask a healthcare provider before you start.

Specifications

  • Brand: Je Joue, Ami
  • Set: three pieces, Ami 1 (single ball), Ami 2 (double ball), Ami 3 (double ball)
  • Weights: 47 g, 78 g, 106 g
  • Listed girths: 4.3 in, 3.9 in, 3.6 in
  • Material: silicone finish with silicone retrieval loops
  • Power: none, non-electric
  • Vegan: yes, according to Je Joue
  • Colour: purple. Also in fuchsia and black

See the full range of kegel balls and weights, or read our toy cleaning guide before your first wear.

Helpful Information

Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about Je Joue Ami Kegel Balls - Purple.

Which Ami ball should I start with?

Ami 1. It's the single ball, the largest and the lightest at 47 g, and the softest to hold. Ami 2 (78 g, double ball) and Ami 3 (106 g, firm double ball) are the next steps. There's no schedule to follow; move up only when the current piece feels familiar.

Are these the same as ben wa balls?

They're related but not the same. Traditional ben wa balls are small loose spheres, often metal or glass, with no cord. The Ami pieces are silicone and each has a retrieval loop, which makes them easier to take out and simpler to keep clean.

How do I take them out if the loop is hard to reach?

Relax first; tensing up makes it harder. Lie back or squat, find the loop with a clean finger and pull slowly and straight. Changing position often helps. If you can't remove a ball, stay calm and contact a healthcare provider rather than reaching in with anything else.

Which lube should I use with silicone kegel balls?

A small amount of water-based lube on the ball only. Silicone lube can leave silicone surfaces tacky, and oils make the pieces slippery and harder to wash. Our water-based lubes all work here.

Can I wear the Ami balls during sex?

No. Take them out before any penetration. They're meant to be worn on their own, for example while you move around the house, not alongside a partner, a toy or a tampon.

Is the purple set different from the fuchsia and black ones?

Only in colour. The fuchsia and black sets have the same three pieces, weights and loops. Purple is the darkest of the coloured options and the easiest to tell apart from the other toys in a drawer.

How should I store the set between uses?

Wash and fully dry each piece, then keep them together in the gift box or a clean fabric pouch. Store them away from other silicone toys and away from heat or direct sun, and check the loops for nicks before each use.

Recently viewed products