XR Lickgasm Lady Licker Clitoral Licking Stimulator – 3 Speeds & 7 Patterns

The XR Lickgasm Lady Licker is a pocket-sized clit licker shaped like a pair of glossy red lips with a soft pink tongue poking out between them. Switch it on and the tongue flicks in a licking motion rather than buzzing, with 3 speeds and 7 patterns to move between. It's a playful, rechargeable toy for anyone who loves oral and wants that feeling on demand, solo or during sex with a partner.

What a licking tongue feels like

Most small vibrators press a buzzing surface against the skin. A licking toy works differently: the 1-inch silicone tongue moves up and down across the clitoris, so the sensation comes in strokes, a little like the flick of a real tongue. Small raised bumps along its surface add texture to every pass. The silicone is firm enough to hold its shape but smooth to the touch, and with a little lube it glides rather than drags. If you find direct vibration too sharp or numbing, this kind of movement can feel softer and more varied.

How to use a clit licking toy

Put a drop of water-based lube on the tongue and on yourself, then switch on at the lowest speed. Hold it so the tongue just grazes the clitoris and move it closer or further away to change the pressure; you'll feel a big difference between barely touching and resting it against the skin. Once a speed feels good, cycle through the patterns, which mix steady licking with pulses and pauses. Bringing it in and pulling it away again makes it easy to tease and edge yourself, building up slowly before you let it stay.

On the clit, the nipples and during sex

The tongue works anywhere you like to be licked. Nipples respond well to the slowest setting. During penetration from a partner or a toy, hold the lips against the clitoris in positions that leave a hand free: lying on your back with a partner kneeling, spooning, or with you on top. It's small enough to fit between two bodies without much rearranging, and either of you can hold it.

Water, charging and travel

The Lady Licker is rated IPX7, so it can be submerged for up to 30 minutes and takes the shower jets, which makes the bath an option and cleanup simple. Recharge it with the included USB cable when it's fully dry. The plastic cap clips over the tongue when you're done, keeping lint out in a drawer or overnight bag. At 2.8 by 2.3 inches, it slides into a toiletry bag without anyone guessing what it is.

Cleaning and lube

Wash it with warm water and mild soap after every use, then rinse and finish with a toy cleaner spray. Run a fingertip over the bumpy texture to clear any lube trapped there. XR says to use water-based lubricant only with it, since silicone lube can wear down a silicone surface.

Specifications

• Brand: XR, Lickgasm Lady Licker
• Type: tongue-style clitoral stimulator, external use
• Settings: 3 speeds, 7 licking patterns
• Size: 2.8 x 2.3 inches overall; tongue 1 inch
• Material: silicone tongue, ABS plastic body; phthalate-free
• Water: IPX7, submersible up to 30 minutes
• Charging: USB rechargeable, cable included; protective cap included
• Lube: water-based only
• Colour: red lips, pink tongue, black accents

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