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The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris: Orgasmic Fingertip Touching Every Woman Craves is a short, illustrated clitoral stimulation guide by Dr. Sadie Allison, published by Tickle Kitty. It's written mainly for men who want to get better at touching a partner with their hands, and it sticks to that one skill instead of trying to cover all of sex. It won an IPPY (Independent Publisher Book Award), and it's a light, friendly read rather than a textbook.
The focus is fingertip touch: how to find the clitoris, how to warm up, and how small changes in pressure, speed and position make a big difference. Dr. Sadie also covers keeping things comfortable with lubrication, reading a partner's responses, and bringing manual touch into intercourse so both partners can finish together. Throughout, the message is that every body is different, and that asking and listening matter as much as technique.
There are 23 how-to illustrations showing fingertip techniques and wrist-friendly hand positions. They're instructional drawings, not erotic photography, so they show where hands go and how they move. The wrist-friendly angle is a practical touch; many people give up on manual play simply because their hand gets tired.
It's a good gift for a male partner who's keen but unsure, and a useful read for anyone, of any gender, who has a partner with a clitoris. It also works for couples who want an easy way to start a conversation about what feels good: read a section together, then try it. People who want a broad sex manual covering positions, toys and communication will find it narrow.
Read it once on your own, then pick one technique at a time and try it slowly with your partner, asking for feedback as you go. Keep a water-based lube nearby; fingertip touch is far more comfortable with glide, and the book stresses this too. Treat each chapter as a starting point rather than a script, since the right pressure and pace are personal.
More from the same author: Tickle Your Fancy, Toy-Gasms and the rest of the Tickle Kitty range, or browse all books.
Helpful answers about Tickle Kitty The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris Book.
Mainly for men who want to improve how they touch a partner with their hands. It's equally useful for anyone with a partner who has a clitoris, and for couples who want to read and try things together.
They're instructional line drawings showing hand positions and movements, not photographs or erotic images. There are 23 of them, and they're there to show where fingers go and how to keep your wrist comfortable.
It's a 128-page paperback, so most people can read it in an evening. That short length is deliberate: it covers one skill in depth instead of trying to be a full sex manual.
Yes. Keeping a partner comfortable and lubricated is one of the topics. A water-based lube is the easy choice for fingertip touch; see our lubricant guide for options.
For her own perspective on solo pleasure, Dr. Sadie's Tickle Your Fancy is a natural companion. Toy-Gasms covers sex toys, and Ride 'Em Cowgirl! covers positions.
It can be, as long as it comes across as an invitation, not a complaint. Giving it with a note like "let's try chapter two together" makes it a shared project rather than homework, and the friendly tone helps.