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The Liberator Ravish is a bondage pillow disguised as a grey half-moon bolster. Silky sashes are built into each end, so you can tie a partner's wrists while the curved foam lifts their hips, then knot the sashes into neat bows and leave it on the bed as decoration. It's soft, gentle restraint for couples who are curious about being tied up but don't want cuffs, clips or anything that looks like equipment.
At 36 in long, 15 in wide and 7 in high, Ravish is the size of a large decorative bolster. The half-moon cross-section gives a firm, rounded support that you can put under the hips, the lower back or the chest. Each end carries a sash about 40 in long, which is plenty to wrap a wrist or ankle and tie off. When play is over, tie the sashes into bows at the ends and the pillow looks like part of the bedding again.
For a first try, have the receiving partner lie on their back with Ravish under their hips. Bring their arms down by their sides and tie each wrist to the sash on that side with a loose loop and a simple bow. They're held, the hips are raised, and they can still slip free if they want to, which keeps the first session relaxed. Once you're both comfortable, try face-down with the bolster under the hips and the wrists tied out in front. Use bows rather than knots so a single pull releases them, and agree on a stop word anyway.
Cuffs and clips make restraint feel serious. Soft sashes make it feel playful. The sensation is gentle pressure rather than a firm hold, so it suits couples exploring restraint for the first time and anyone who simply prefers a lighter touch. If you later want more hold, you can add cuffs from our restraints and bondage cuffs collection to the rest of the bed.
Grey is the most neutral of the Ravish colours. It sits with white, linen and charcoal bedding and doesn't draw the eye, which is the point of a disguised piece. The plush microvelvet cover is removable and washable, so the bolster can stay on display without looking worn. Grey also forgives lint and pet hair better than black, which is handy if it lives on the bed full time.
Ravish isn't only for tying up. As a plain hip pillow it gives raised missionary a softer, rounder lift than a wedge. Under the knees, it takes pressure off the lower back during oral. Lying face-down with the bolster under the pelvis, the receiving partner can relax completely while the curve holds their hips at a comfortable height. Use the sashes when the mood calls for it, and leave them tied in bows when it doesn't.
Ravish also comes in pink, red and black, all the same size and shape.
Read our gentle introduction to BDSM for consent and safe-word basics before your first tie-up.
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