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The XR Seductress Lace Crotchless Harness is a strap on harness disguised as sexy black lace panties, with a front O-ring for a dildo, open access front and back, and garter straps. It suits anyone who wants to wear a strap-on without bulky straps, and couples who like giving and receiving in the same session. This is the L/XL size, for 35 to 40-inch waists.
Traditional harnesses rely on buckles and webbing. The Seductress is cut like a pair of panties instead, in stretchy nylon and spandex with a lace pattern over the hips. A wide elastic band runs around the waist and hips to spread the weight of the dildo and support the lower back, so the toy doesn't sag when you move. Garter straps hang from the waistband for stockings, if you like that look, and you can simply leave them unclipped if you don't. Because it's slim and smooth, it can be worn under trousers, leggings or a fitted dress, ready for later.
The crotch is open, and there's a slit at the back as well, so the wearer can be touched, licked or penetrated without taking anything off. That makes it a practical choice for switching or for couples who both want attention, not just pegging. The O-ring sits at the front over the pubic area, with the openings below and behind it.
The front O-ring has a 1.75-inch inner diameter, which XR says fits most standard dildos. The dildo goes in from the inside: slip its base between the lower layer of fabric and the outer panel, then push the shaft through the O-ring until the base sits flat behind it. That inner fabric layer sits between the base and your skin, reducing rubbing. Choose a dildo with a flared base wider than 1.75 inches so it can't slip through, and a shaft that's no wider than the ring. A dildo with a suction cup or flat flange tends to sit most steadily.
This size fits waists of 35 to 40 inches. The waistband measures 17.5 inches across unstretched, and the fabric stretches to fit within that range. Measure around your natural waist, or where you'd like the harness to sit, before choosing. A soft tape measure held level, with one finger's slack, gives the most accurate number. If you're between sizes and planning to use a heavy dildo, the smaller size gives a firmer hold, while the larger one is more comfortable for longer wear.
You can machine-wash it on cold without bleach, but XR recommends hand washing in cold water and air drying to keep the elastic stretchy for longer. Remove the dildo first and clean that separately, following the care advice for its material. Let the harness dry fully before storing it, folded flat rather than balled up.
Find a matching dildo in our harness-compatible dildos, compare other strap-on harnesses, or see more from XR.
Helpful answers about XR Seductress Lace Crotchless Harness – L/XL.
The Seductress O-ring has a 1.75-inch inner diameter, which fits most standard dildos. Choose one with a flared base wider than the ring and a shaft no wider than it. Our harness-compatible dildos are a good place to look.
The Seductress L/XL fits waists from 35 to 40 inches, with a 17.5-inch waistband before stretching. Measure where you want it to sit. If you're under 35 inches, the smaller size will hold the dildo more firmly.
Fit the dildo through the Seductress O-ring, put the harness on and add plenty of lube to the dildo. Start with a slim dildo and slow, shallow thrusts while your partner guides you. Agree on signals, and let the receiver control the depth at first.
Yes. The Seductress is slim, stretchy and cut like panties, so it sits smoothly under trousers, leggings or a fitted dress. Carry the dildo separately and fit it through the O-ring when you're ready.
Yes. The Seductress is crotchless and has a slit at the back, so the wearer can receive oral, fingers or penetration without taking it off. It's a good option for couples who like to switch roles in the same session.
Take out the dildo, then hand wash the Seductress in cold water and let it air-dry to keep the elastic stretchy. If needed, it can go in the machine on a cold cycle without bleach. Don't tumble dry it.
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