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The XR Seductress Lace Crotchless Harness is a strap on harness disguised as a pair of black lace panties. A front O-ring holds a dildo, a wide elastic band at the hips carries its weight, garter straps hold up stockings, and openings at the crotch and back leave the wearer free to receive too. It suits anyone who wants strap-on play to feel sexy rather than technical, and who would rather slip on underwear than buckle into straps. This is the S/M size.
Most harnesses look like gear. The Seductress looks like lingerie: stretchy nylon and spandex panties with an all-over lace design that follows the curves of the hips. You can wear it under jeans, leggings or a fitted dress for the evening and add the dildo only when it's time, with no bulky buckles to give anything away. Garter straps hang from the waist for stockings, if you like wearing them.
At the front is an O-ring with a 1.75-inch inner diameter, which fits most standard dildos. The dildo slides in between the lower layer of fabric and the panties and pushes through the ring from behind, so the flared base sits against a padded fabric layer instead of your skin. That extra layer reduces chafing during thrusting. Choose a dildo with a flared base noticeably wider than 1.75 inches so it can't slip through. Shafts up to roughly 1.5 inches wide pass through most comfortably; one at the full 1.75 inches will be a snug squeeze. Try the fit at home once before a night out, so you know how the dildo sits and how long it takes to slot in.
The wide elastic band across the hips spreads the dildo's weight and gives the lower back some support, which makes a noticeable difference during longer sessions. Because it's a stretch panty rather than an adjustable strap system, it won't be quite as rigid as a leather harness with heavy dildos. Mid-weight dildos feel most stable, and thrusting from the hips, not the waist, keeps everything aligned.
The crotch is open, and there's a slit at the back, so the wearer can be touched, licked or penetrated while wearing the harness. That makes it easy to switch roles in the same session, or to wear a vibrator against the clitoris while you play. Some wearers like to tuck a small bullet behind the dildo base, where the thrusting presses it against them; a slim, flat vibe sits there most comfortably.
The S/M fits a 30 to 34-inch waist. The waistband measures 15 inches across unstretched. Measure around your natural waist before you choose; if you're at the top of the range, expect a snug fit. A snug waist actually helps here, because the tighter the panties sit, the less the dildo moves around. If you're between sizes, the snugger fit is usually the more stable one.
It can go in the machine on cold with no bleach, but hand washing in cold water and air-drying keeps the elastic stretchy for longer. Wash the dildo separately according to its own material.
Browse our strap-on harnesses and harness-compatible dildos, or see the XR range.
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