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The XR Squeezable Phallic Dildo is a soft, ultra-flexible suction dildo made from Silexpan and silicone, in a light flesh tone. Squeeze it and it squashes in your hand, bend it and it follows, then let go and it springs back to its phallic shape with a bulging head. At 6 inches insertable and 1.5 inches wide, it's an approachable size that suits beginners, people who find firm dildos too rigid, and anyone curious about temperature play.
Most silicone dildos have a set firmness. This one is built from Silexpan, a soft, squashy silicone-based material, which gives it far more give than standard silicone. You can fold it, pinch it, or squeeze the head into a narrower shape as it goes in, and it recovers once you let go. That softness means it moulds to the curves inside your body instead of pressing against them, which many people find more comfortable, especially early on. It still has enough body to feel full and to thrust with.
XR describes the material as thermo-reactive. Chill it in the refrigerator and it becomes cooler and a little firmer, which gives a crisp, fresh sensation on entry. Warm it and it turns softer and more pliable, close to body temperature or a little above. XR's directions mention warming it in boiling water or the microwave; whatever method you use, follow the pack instructions, warm it gradually, and always test it on your inner wrist before use. It should feel pleasantly warm, never hot. A bowl of warm water for a few minutes is the gentlest option.
The base works as a suction cup on smooth surfaces like tile, glass or a sealed floor. Wet the cup, press it down and give it a small twist. Because the dildo is so flexible, it bends as you ride, which suits gentle grinding more than hard bouncing. The base also fits a strap-on harness, so a partner can wear it. Flexible dildos can bend inside a loose O-ring, so pick a dildo harness with a snug ring for the steadiest feel.
The dildo measures 6.75 inches long overall, with 6 inches insertable. It's 1.5 inches at the widest point and 1.35 inches at the narrowest, measured unsqueezed. That's a moderate, beginner-friendly size, and the squashy material makes it feel smaller still during entry. If you want more girth or a firmer push, a dual-density or standard silicone dildo will feel very different. On the other hand, if firm toys have felt like too much, this softness is the whole point, and it can be a forgiving choice for anal play too. Hold the base or use a harness, and keep the suction base outside the body at all times.
Use water-based lube only. The material is not compatible with silicone lubricants, which can damage it. Clean after each use with mild soap and warm water or a toy cleaner, rinse well and let it air-dry. Soft materials can pick up lint, so store it in a pouch, away from other toys and out of direct sunlight.
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Helpful answers about XR Squeezable Phallic Dildo – Light.
The Silexpan material reacts to temperature. Chill the Squeezable Dildo in the fridge for a cooler, slightly firmer feel, or warm it for a softer, more pliable one. XR mentions hot water or the microwave; go gradually, follow the pack directions and always test on your wrist first.
Yes. It's 6 inches insertable and 1.5 inches wide, and the material squashes easily, so it feels gentler than a firm dildo of the same size. Start with plenty of water-based lube and let it bend with your body rather than pushing it straight.
Yes, XR lists it as harness compatible. Because it's so flexible, it can bend inside a loose O-ring, so a harness with a snug or adjustable ring keeps it steadier. See our strap-on harnesses for options.
Yes, on smooth, non-porous surfaces like tile or glass. Wet the cup, press firmly and twist slightly. The shaft bends as you ride, so slow grinding works better than hard bouncing. It won't hold on carpet or fabric.
No. XR says this Silexpan and silicone dildo is not compatible with silicone lubricants, which can damage the surface. Use a water-based lube, and reapply as needed, since soft materials can absorb a little moisture during play.
Wash it with mild soap and warm water or a toy cleaner, rinse thoroughly and let it air-dry. Avoid harsh cleaners. Soft materials attract lint and dust, so store it in a clean pouch, apart from other toys and out of the sun.
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