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Best For:
- Couples exploring strap-on play for the first time
- Incremental sizing with two included dildos
- Versatile harness compatible with other toys
- Adding vibration to penetrative play
- Body-safe, non-porous materials
The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit removes the guesswork from starting strap-on play. This complete set includes two smooth silicone dildos — a slimmer 7/8" × 4.5" starter and a fuller 1.25" × 5.5" option — plus a velvet-lined harness, an interchangeable O-ring for upgrading to larger toys later, and a bullet vibrator that slots into a built-in pocket for external stimulation during use.
The adjustable harness fits hips up to approximately 60", with a soft fabric backing that stays comfortable during extended wear. Both dildos are 100% platinum-cured silicone, body-safe and easy to sterilize between uses. The included O-ring system lets you swap in compatible dildos from other brands once you're ready to expand your collection, making this kit a long-term investment rather than a one-time purchase.
Unlike cheaper nylon harnesses that chafe or metal hardware that digs, the velvet construction here distributes pressure evenly. The mini bullet vibrator is modest — not intended as a primary pleasure source for the wearer, but enough sensation to enhance the experience without adding bulk or complexity.
Key Features
- Two platinum-cured silicone dildos: 7/8" × 4.5" and 1.25" × 5.5"
- Adjustable velvet harness fits hips up to 60"
- Interchangeable O-ring system for future toy upgrades
- Built-in pocket holds included variable-speed bullet vibrator
- Non-porous, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic materials
- Dildos compatible with boiling, bleach solution, and dishwasher sterilization
- Harness fabric is machine washable (remove hardware first)
How to Use
Step through the leg straps and adjust the waist and thigh bands until the O-ring sits flat against your pubic bone. Insert the dildo of your choice through the O-ring from the front, ensuring the base sits snug against the harness. Slide the bullet vibrator into the interior pocket if desired, then fine-tune strap tension for a secure fit that doesn't restrict circulation.
Compatibility
- Dildo compatibility: Standard 1.75" O-ring included; upgrade O-rings sold separately for toys with larger bases
- Lubricant: Use water-based lube with the silicone dildos (silicone-based lube degrades silicone toys)
- Body types: Harness adjusts for hips 28"–60" approximately; check waist/thigh measurements before purchase
- Care: Boil dildos or wipe with 10% bleach solution; machine wash harness on gentle cycle, air dry
Frequently Asked Questions
What sizes are the dildos included in the Bend Over Beginner Kit? The kit includes two smooth silicone dildos: a 7/8" diameter × 4.5" insertable length starter, and a 1.25" diameter × 5.5" insertable length intermediate option.
Can I use other dildos with the harness once I outgrow the included ones? Yes — the harness uses a standard interchangeable O-ring system. You can purchase larger O-rings separately to accommodate dildos with bigger base diameters.
Is the velvet harness machine washable? Yes — remove all hardware (O-ring, bullet vibrator) first, then machine wash on a gentle cycle and air dry to preserve the fabric.
How strong is the bullet vibrator that comes with the kit? The mini bullet provides light to moderate vibration — enough to add sensation during wear, but not intended as a primary stimulation source. It's a bonus feature rather than the kit's main focus.
Does the Bend Over Beginner Kit ship discreetly to Canada? Yes — every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.