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The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit removes the guesswork from starting strap-on play. This complete set includes two smooth silicone dildos — a slimmer 7/8" × 4.5" starter and a fuller 1.25" × 5.5" option — plus a velvet-lined harness, an interchangeable O-ring for upgrading to larger toys later, and a bullet vibrator that slots into a built-in pocket for external stimulation during use.
The adjustable harness fits hips up to approximately 60", with a soft fabric backing that stays comfortable during extended wear. Both dildos are 100% platinum-cured silicone, body-safe and easy to sterilize between uses. The included O-ring system lets you swap in compatible dildos from other brands once you're ready to expand your collection, making this kit a long-term investment rather than a one-time purchase.
Unlike cheaper nylon harnesses that chafe or metal hardware that digs, the velvet construction here distributes pressure evenly. The mini bullet vibrator is modest — not intended as a primary pleasure source for the wearer, but enough sensation to enhance the experience without adding bulk or complexity.
Step through the leg straps and adjust the waist and thigh bands until the O-ring sits flat against your pubic bone. Insert the dildo of your choice through the O-ring from the front, ensuring the base sits snug against the harness. Slide the bullet vibrator into the interior pocket if desired, then fine-tune strap tension for a secure fit that doesn't restrict circulation.
Helpful answers about Tantus - Silicone Bend Over Beginner Kit (Black).
You get a slim 7/8-inch starter and a fuller 1.25-inch option. Most couples begin with the slimmer one and only switch once the receiving partner is comfortable, which might take several sessions rather than one evening. Both fit the same harness, so changing between them takes seconds.
Yes — the harness uses a standard interchangeable O-ring system. You can purchase larger O-rings separately to accommodate dildos with bigger base diameters.
Yes — remove all hardware (O-ring, bullet vibrator) first, then machine wash on a gentle cycle and air dry to preserve the fabric.
The mini bullet provides light to moderate vibration — enough to add sensation during wear, but not intended as a primary stimulation source. It's a bonus feature rather than the kit's main focus.
Use water-based lube with both dildos, as they're platinum-cured silicone and silicone lube can degrade them. Strap-on play usually needs more lube than you'd expect, so apply it to the dildo and your partner, and keep the bottle within reach to top up.