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Best For:

  • Couples exploring strap-on play for the first time
  • Incremental sizing with two included dildos
  • Versatile harness compatible with other toys
  • Adding vibration to penetrative play
  • Body-safe, non-porous materials

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit removes the guesswork from starting strap-on play. This complete set includes two smooth silicone dildos — a slimmer 7/8" × 4.5" starter and a fuller 1.25" × 5.5" option — plus a velvet-lined harness, an interchangeable O-ring for upgrading to larger toys later, and a bullet vibrator that slots into a built-in pocket for external stimulation during use.

The adjustable harness fits hips up to approximately 60", with a soft fabric backing that stays comfortable during extended wear. Both dildos are 100% platinum-cured silicone, body-safe and easy to sterilize between uses. The included O-ring system lets you swap in compatible dildos from other brands once you're ready to expand your collection, making this kit a long-term investment rather than a one-time purchase.

Unlike cheaper nylon harnesses that chafe or metal hardware that digs, the velvet construction here distributes pressure evenly. The mini bullet vibrator is modest — not intended as a primary pleasure source for the wearer, but enough sensation to enhance the experience without adding bulk or complexity.

Key Features

  • Two platinum-cured silicone dildos: 7/8" × 4.5" and 1.25" × 5.5"
  • Adjustable velvet harness fits hips up to 60"
  • Interchangeable O-ring system for future toy upgrades
  • Built-in pocket holds included variable-speed bullet vibrator
  • Non-porous, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic materials
  • Dildos compatible with boiling, bleach solution, and dishwasher sterilization
  • Harness fabric is machine washable (remove hardware first)

How to Use

Step through the leg straps and adjust the waist and thigh bands until the O-ring sits flat against your pubic bone. Insert the dildo of your choice through the O-ring from the front, ensuring the base sits snug against the harness. Slide the bullet vibrator into the interior pocket if desired, then fine-tune strap tension for a secure fit that doesn't restrict circulation.

Compatibility

  • Dildo compatibility: Standard 1.75" O-ring included; upgrade O-rings sold separately for toys with larger bases
  • Lubricant: Use water-based lube with the silicone dildos (silicone-based lube degrades silicone toys)
  • Body types: Harness adjusts for hips 28"–60" approximately; check waist/thigh measurements before purchase
  • Care: Boil dildos or wipe with 10% bleach solution; machine wash harness on gentle cycle, air dry

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Helpful Information

Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about Tantus - Silicone Bend Over Beginner Kit (Black).

What sizes are the dildos included in the Bend Over Beginner Kit?

You get a slim 7/8-inch starter and a fuller 1.25-inch option. Most couples begin with the slimmer one and only switch once the receiving partner is comfortable, which might take several sessions rather than one evening. Both fit the same harness, so changing between them takes seconds.

Can I use other dildos with the harness once I outgrow the included ones?

Yes — the harness uses a standard interchangeable O-ring system. You can purchase larger O-rings separately to accommodate dildos with bigger base diameters.

Is the velvet harness machine washable?

Yes — remove all hardware (O-ring, bullet vibrator) first, then machine wash on a gentle cycle and air dry to preserve the fabric.

How strong is the bullet vibrator that comes with the kit?

The mini bullet provides light to moderate vibration — enough to add sensation during wear, but not intended as a primary stimulation source. It's a bonus feature rather than the kit's main focus.

What lube should I use with the Bend Over Beginner Kit?

Use water-based lube with both dildos, as they're platinum-cured silicone and silicone lube can degrade them. Strap-on play usually needs more lube than you'd expect, so apply it to the dildo and your partner, and keep the bottle within reach to top up.

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