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The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Kit pairs a comfortable, adjustable harness with two smooth silicone dildos from the Silk collection, offering fuller dimensions for those ready to graduate from beginner sizing. The harness features integrated O-rings in two sizes, letting you swap dildos mid-session or customize fit based on comfort and experience level.
What sets this kit apart is the built-in bullet pocket positioned for clitoral or perineal stimulation — a bullet vibrator is included, so the wearer experiences sensation during penetration. The harness fabric is machine washable, making cleanup straightforward after extended play. Adjustable straps accommodate a range of body types, and the four-point design keeps the dildo stable without excessive bulk.
This isn't a beginner kit — the Silk dildos have intermediate girth and length. If you're new to strap-on play, consider starting with a slimmer dildo or harness designed for first-time users. The Bend Over Intermediate is built for those who know their preferences and want versatility in one package.
Adjust the harness straps for a snug fit around hips and thighs — the O-ring should sit just above the pubic bone. Insert the bullet vibrator into the interior pocket, then slide your chosen dildo through the O-ring (use the smaller ring for a tighter fit, the larger for easier swapping). Apply water-based lubricant to the dildo and receiving partner. After use, remove the dildos and bullet, then machine wash the harness on a gentle cycle.
What dildo sizes are included in the Bend Over Intermediate Kit? The kit includes two silicone dildos from Tantus's Silk collection with intermediate girth and length, suitable for users who've moved past beginner sizing. Exact dimensions aren't specified, but the O-rings accommodate 1.5" and 1.75" diameter bases.
Can I use my own dildos with this harness? Yes — the Bend Over harness works with any O-ring compatible dildo. The included O-rings fit 1.5" and 1.75" base diameters, covering most standard strap-on toys.
How do I clean the harness after use? Remove the dildos and bullet vibrator, then machine wash the fabric harness on a gentle cycle with mild detergent. Wash the silicone dildos separately with soap and water or toy cleaner.
Is the bullet vibrator waterproof? The product description doesn't specify waterproof ratings for the included bullet. For water play, use a separately purchased waterproof bullet in the harness pocket.
Does the Bend Over Intermediate Kit ship discreetly to Canada? Yes — every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with confidential billing.