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The XR Vibrassage Caress is a small clitoral stimulator that does two things at once. One silicone tickler buzzes while the other two turn in slow circles, so you get vibration and a swirling, massaging touch together instead of switching between them. At 3.6 inches long it sits in the palm, which makes it easy to hold against the clitoris on your own or slip between two bodies during sex.

How the three ticklers work

Picture three soft silicone nubs side by side, about 0.4 inches apart. The single vibrating tickler gives the steady buzz most people know from a bullet. The two rotating ticklers either side of it gyrate rather than vibrate, so the sensation feels more like fingertips circling than a motor humming. Rest the gap between the ticklers over the clitoral hood and the vibration lands in the middle while the rotation works around it. Tilt it and you can put the buzz right on the spot or keep it to the side if direct contact is too much.

Using this clitoral stimulator for the first time

Start through underwear or with the toy resting on the outer labia, then move it closer once you know how the two motions feel together. A little water-based lube on the ticklers helps them glide instead of dragging. The Caress isn't only for the clitoris: the same swirling head works on nipples, the inner thighs or the perineum, and it's a nice way to warm up before penetrative play.

With a partner, the compact body fits between you in missionary or spooning without getting in the way. Either of you can hold it, and the short length means there's nothing awkward to steer.

Bath, shower and lube

XR lists the Caress as fully submersible, so it can come into the bath or shower. Water rinses lube away fast, so keep a bottle nearby. The ticklers are silicone, and XR says not to use silicone lubricant with it, because silicone lube can break down a silicone surface over time. Stick to a water-based lube.

Who it suits, and who should look elsewhere

The Caress suits people who like indirect or circling touch more than a single strong buzz, and anyone who wants a small toy that's easy to use during sex. It's less suited to a few situations. If you already know you need deep, rumbly power, a wand vibrator is the safer pick, since XR doesn't publish speed or intensity figures for the Caress. If you want the pulsing, contact-free feel of air pulse toys, look at suction vibrators instead. And some people find two motions at once a little busy at first, which is why starting through fabric helps.

Caress or Fondle?

Vibrassage makes two versions of this three-tickler idea. If you like the sound of the rotating motion but want something you can compare settings on, look at the XR Vibrassage Fondle, which uses the same one-vibrating, two-rotating layout. The Caress is the one to pick if you want the small, hand-held shape described here.

Charging, cleaning and storage

It charges by USB, so there are no batteries to buy. Before and after each use, wash the ticklers with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, rinse well and let it air-dry before you put it away. Store it on its own or in a pouch so the silicone doesn't pick up lint or touch other silicone toys.

Specifications

  • Brand: XR, Vibrassage line
  • Type: clitoral stimulator with one vibrating and two rotating ticklers
  • Material: silicone ticklers, ABS plastic body
  • Size: about 3.6 in long and 1.6 in wide; about 0.4 in between ticklers
  • Power: rechargeable by USB
  • Water: fully submersible
  • Lube: water-based only (no silicone lube)
  • Colour: pink

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Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about XR Vibrassage Caress Vibrating Clitoral Massager – Pink.

Is the XR Vibrassage Caress a good first clitoral stimulator?

Yes, the Vibrassage Caress works well as a first clitoral stimulator because it's small, light and easy to control in one hand. Start with it resting on the outer labia or through underwear, then move it closer once you know how the vibration and rotation feel together.

What do the vibrating and rotating ticklers on the Vibrassage Caress feel like?

The Vibrassage Caress has one middle tickler that buzzes like a bullet vibrator and two outer ticklers that turn in small circles. The rotation feels more like fingertips massaging than a motor humming, and you get both sensations at the same time.

Can you use the Vibrassage Caress in the bath or shower?

Yes, XR lists the Vibrassage Caress as fully submersible, so you can take it into the bath or shower. Water washes lube away quickly, so keep a bottle of water-based lube within reach and reapply as you go.

What lube can you use with the Vibrassage Caress?

Use a water-based lube with the Vibrassage Caress. XR says it isn't compatible with silicone lubricants, which can wear down the silicone ticklers over time. A small amount on the ticklers helps them glide rather than drag.

Can couples use the Vibrassage Caress during sex?

Yes, the Vibrassage Caress is about 3.6 inches long, so it fits between partners in positions like missionary or spooning without getting in the way. Either partner can hold it against the clitoris, and the short body is easy to steer.

How do you charge and clean the Vibrassage Caress?

The Vibrassage Caress charges by USB, so there are no batteries to replace. Wash the ticklers with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after each use, rinse well and let it air-dry before you store it in a pouch.

Vibrassage Caress or Vibrassage Fondle: which should you choose?

Both Vibrassage toys pair one vibrating tickler with two rotating ones. Choose the Caress for a compact, hand-held shape you can use during sex. Look at the Vibrassage Fondle if you'd like to compare its listed speed settings first.

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