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The XR XL-Bondage Cushion is a large foam bondage wedge that comes with its own wrist and ankle cuffs. Clip the restraints to the cushion, lay your partner across it, and their body weight does the job of keeping them in place, with the hips lifted at a helpful angle. It suits couples who want a support pillow and a simple restraint system in one piece, without rigging anything to the bed.

A wedge that holds its shape

The core is high-density PU foam, cut as a long ramp 31.5 inches long, 24 inches wide and rising to 9.25 inches at the tall end. That's enough surface for a whole torso, and the foam is firm enough that hips and shoulders stay lifted instead of sinking slowly towards the mattress. It still has a little give at the surface, so lying across it for a long scene doesn't feel like lying on a board. For its size it's light, easy to move around the bed and easy to carry to a partner's place for the night.

How the built-in bondage works

The set includes 2 wrist cuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 4 connectors with D-rings and 2 restraint connectors, and the cover has built-in clips to attach them to. The clever part is that the wedge doesn't need to be tied to anything. Clip the cuffs on, have your partner lie or lean on the cushion, and their own weight anchors it, so the restraints stay put without bed posts or under-mattress straps. The wrist cuffs adjust up to 14.5 inches around and the ankle cuffs up to 19 inches, which covers most adults.

Before you start, agree on a safe word and a signal for when speaking isn't easy. Fasten the cuffs so you can slide a finger underneath, check hands and feet for tingling or coldness every so often, and keep the connectors where you can release them quickly.

Positions to try on a bondage wedge

Lying on the back with hips over the tall end tilts the pelvis upward, which changes the angle of penetration and makes the front wall easier to reach for G-spot or P-spot play. That's why wedges like this are often called a G spot pillow. Face down over the wedge, it supports the hips or chest for rear-entry positions so the person underneath can relax instead of holding themselves up. You can also kneel on the soft end yourself to save your knees while your partner lies in front of you, cuffs clipped in.

Two covers, both washable

The outer cover is a velvety polyester that feels soft and warm against bare skin. Beneath it sits a water-resistant nylon inner cover that keeps sweat, lube and other fluids out of the foam, so it doesn't pick up moisture or odours. Both unzip and go in the washing machine. Wash them after play, let them dry fully before zipping them back on, and wipe the cuffs and plastic hardware separately with a damp cloth.

Specifications

  • Brand: XR, XL-Bondage Cushion
  • Type: bondage wedge pillow with restraint kit
  • Size: 31.5" long x 24" wide x 9.25" high
  • Materials: PU foam core; polyester velvet outer cover; nylon water-resistant inner cover; ABS plastic hardware; resin zipper
  • Includes: 2 wrist cuffs (up to 14.5"), 2 ankle cuffs (up to 19"), 4 D-ring connectors, 2 restraint connectors
  • Care: both covers machine washable
  • Colour: Black

Compare it with other sex wedges and ramps, add to it from our restraints and bondage cuffs, or read our guide to sex furniture.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about XR XL-Bondage Cushion Bondage Wedge Pillow.

What size is the XL-Bondage Cushion wedge?

The XL-Bondage Cushion is 31.5 inches long, 24 inches wide and 9.25 inches tall at the high end. That's long enough to support the torso and hips together, and wide enough for most people to lie across it without slipping off the sides.

How do bdsm restraints attach to the XL-Bondage Cushion?

The cuffs connect to clips built into the cushion cover using the included D-ring and restraint connectors. Once your partner lies on the wedge, their weight holds it down. If they push hard against the restraints, the cushion can shift, so it's for playful restraint rather than heavy struggle.

Will the bondage cuffs fit larger wrists and ankles?

The included wrist cuffs adjust up to 14.5 inches around and the ankle cuffs up to 19 inches. Measure around the widest point if you're unsure. If yours are larger, you can clip your own cuffs to the cushion's built-in clips instead.

Can I use the XL-Bondage Cushion without the cuffs?

Yes. Leave the restraints off and it works as an ordinary sex wedge for lifting the hips, supporting your chest from behind, or cushioning your knees. Many couples use it more often this way and add the cuffs only for some sessions.

Is the bondage wedge foam waterproof?

The foam itself isn't, but it sits inside a water-resistant nylon inner cover that keeps fluids away from it. Wash both covers after messy play and let them dry fully. For very wet play, lay a towel over the velvet cover too.

How is a bondage wedge different from a sex ramp?

A sex ramp or wedge is a firm foam shape for positioning; a bondage wedge like this one adds clips and cuffs so the same cushion doubles as a restraint point. If you only need positioning, see our sex furniture range.

Is it safe to leave someone cuffed to the XL-Bondage Cushion?

Never leave a restrained partner alone, even briefly. Keep the cuffs loose enough for a finger underneath, check for numbness or colour change in hands and feet, and know how you'll undo the connectors quickly. Agree on a safe word or gesture before you start.

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