Dildos Sex Toys - Dongs & Dildos

A dildo is a non-vibrating toy made for penetration. Some are shaped like a penis, others are smooth, curved or fantasy designs, and many have a suction cup or a flared base for hands-free or strap-on use.

To start, use a water-based lube, go slowly, and pick a size close to what you already know is comfortable. Hold the base, find an angle that suits you, and let your body set the pace. Wash it after every use. Our dildo buying guide covers size, material and suction cups in more detail.

The main styles are realistic, smooth silicone, glass, vibrating, suction cup, double-ended and XL. There are also fantasy designs from Creature Cocks. Many shoppers pick a style first and then narrow down by size and material.

Silicone is the most popular: it's non-porous, has some give, and is easy to wash. Glass is rigid and very smooth, and it can be warmed or cooled in water for temperature play. TPE, PVC and jelly-style toys cost less and often feel softer, but they're porous and harder to clean thoroughly. The material is listed on every product page, so check it before you buy.

Look at two numbers on the product page: insertable length and diameter. Diameter usually matters more to how a toy feels. A good trick is to compare the measurements with a toy you already own, or with something around the house, before ordering. If you're new to dildos, starting smaller is the easier route. Our dildo buying guide goes through sizing in more detail.

You can if it has a flared base that sits behind the harness O-ring. Check the base width against the ring size of your harness. Everything that fits a standard harness is grouped in harness-compatible dildos, and you'll find the harnesses themselves in strap-on harnesses. If you'd rather buy both together, see our strap-ons.

A water-based lube is the standard choice. Silicone lube can react with some silicone toys, so only use it when the manufacturer says it's fine, or test a small spot on the base first. Glass dildos work with any type of lube.