Prostate Massagers Canada — The P-Spot Collection at Dreamy Desire

Most people who land on this page have two questions. Will it actually reach the prostate, and do I want it to vibrate? Every toy here is shaped for the first one: a head that curves toward the front wall, a few centimetres in, which is where the prostate sits. The second question is yours, and the range covers both answers. If you'd like the longer version first, our prostate massager buying guide walks through the shapes and our picks by experience level.

Hands-free or vibrating?

Hands-free massagers have no motor. Once they're in, they rock with your own muscle contractions, so the feeling builds slowly and depends on relaxing rather than pressing a button. Aneros built its name on this style, and the Helix Syn Trident and Eupho Trident are where a lot of people start.

Vibrating massagers give you something to feel straight away. The We-Vibe Vector+ has separate motors in the inside arm and the perineum arm, so you can turn one up without the other. The Lovense Edge 2 has an adjustable arm and works with the Lovense app, which means a partner can take the controls. A few models, like the Aneros Helix Syn V, work both ways.

What size should you start with?

Smaller than you think. The prostate responds to pressure, not fullness, and a slim head often does more than a thick one. The b-Vibe P-Spot Slim X is a slim, firm plastic massager that gives defined pressure without bulk, and it's a sensible first buy if you don't want vibration. Already enjoy plugs and want more? Look at the larger Aneros Progasm, or the b-Vibe rimming plugs, which add a ring of rotating beads at the entrance.

Silicone, plastic or steel?

Silicone has a little give and covers most of the powered toys here. Pair it with water-based lube, since silicone lube can wear the surface down. Hard plastic and stainless steel don't flex at all, and some people prefer that for precise pressure. The b-Vibe Stainless Steel Prostate Plug is weighted, so you feel it even when you're lying still, and steel can be warmed or cooled under the tap before use.

What else will you need?

Lube, and more of it than you'd expect, because the rectum doesn't make its own. Our anal lubes are thicker so they last longer. Some people like to rinse beforehand with a bulb from our douche and enema range, though it isn't required. New to anal play altogether? Anal beads vs butt plugs is a gentler place to begin, and our male sex toy guide covers what pairs well, from cock rings to strokers.