XR 21X Remote-Controlled Bullet Vibrator – Purple

The XR 21X is a small purple vibrating bullet with a wireless remote, a remote control vibrator built for teasing. One partner holds the bullet against their body; the other holds the remote and decides when, and how hard, it buzzes. With 3 power levels, 7 patterns, a silicone body and USB charging, it's a fun, low-fuss way for couples to try remote play at home or on a date.

Who holds the remote?

The appeal of any remote vibrator is giving up control. The person wearing or holding the bullet doesn't know when the next wave is coming; the person with the remote can tease, build up, stop and surprise. That's what XR designed the 21X, part of its Bang line, for. Use it in bed for edging games, during dinner at home, or out together if you're both comfortable with the idea. The remote also works perfectly well solo, letting you change settings without reaching down.

Three levels, seven patterns

The 21X has 3 power levels and 7 patterns, all switched from the remote. For most people, a low steady setting suits the build-up, with a pulsing or escalating pattern saved for later. For a partner holding the remote, switching patterns is an easy way to keep things unpredictable. XR describes the vibration as strong for its size; the small body focuses the buzz into the tip.

How to use a remote control vibrator

Charge the bullet fully first. Agree on boundaries before you start, including where you'll use it and a signal for "stop". The bullet is 3 inches long and 0.8 inches wide, so it fits easily against the clitoris, along the labia or on the nipples, and it slips between bodies during sex. Snug underwear can hold it in place against the vulva, although it doesn't come with a clip, so it may shift with lots of movement. Test the remote's range at home before relying on it out of the house, since no range figure is given.

Waterproof bullet, dry remote

The bullet is waterproof, so it can go into the shower or bath. Only the bullet is listed as waterproof, so keep the remote on a dry ledge. Water rinses lube away, so reapply as you go. Keep the remote somewhere your partner can reach without leaning over the water.

Material, charging and care

The bullet is made from silky silicone with ABS plastic, and it's phthalate-free and non-porous. It recharges with the included USB cord; dry it before plugging it in. Wash it with warm water and mild soap after each use, and use water-based lube, since silicone lube can damage silicone. Store the bullet and remote together so the remote doesn't wander off. A small pouch keeps both clean and makes it easy to pack them for a weekend away. If the bullet stops responding, charge it first, then check that nothing is blocking the signal between the two.

Specifications

• Brand: XR, Bang 21X
• Type: remote control bullet vibrator
• Settings: 3 power levels, 7 patterns
• Materials: silicone, ABS plastic; phthalate-free
• Size: 3" long; 0.8" at the widest point
• Water resistance: bullet is waterproof
• Power: USB rechargeable
• Includes: wireless remote, USB charging cord, detailed instructions
• Remote range: not stated
• Colour: Purple

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