XR Bondage Kit – XL Bullet, Cuffs, Tickler

The XR Bang! Bondage Kit is a four-piece bdsm kit for couples trying restraint and sensation play for the first time: faux leather wrist cuffs, a satin blindfold, a feather tickler and a rechargeable vibrator, all in one box. Nothing needs to be bought separately to get started, and each piece is simple enough to use on the first night.

What's in this bdsm kit

Four pieces cover the basics of light bondage and sensation play. The wrist cuffs are PU faux leather lined with neoprene, adjustable from 4.75 to 9.75 inches around, with a metal chain to link them. A satin blindfold, 7.5 by 3.25 inches, takes sight away. The feather tickler is 9 inches long, with a rubber-grip handle and a soft plume for teasing skin. The fourth piece is a rechargeable vibrator that XR calls a large bullet; at 8.5 inches long and 1.4 inches wide, it is closer to a slim wand-style vibe than a small egg.

The vibrator

It has three vibration modes, a silicone and ABS body and a rechargeable battery. XR rates it waterproof for up to 30 minutes under water, so it can come into the bath or shower. Of its length, 7.25 inches can be inserted vaginally, or you can run it over the body, nipples, inner thighs and clitoris. It is not for anal use: there's no flared base to stop it slipping in. Use a water-based lube with it, and wash it in warm water and toy cleaner afterwards.

Putting a scene together

Start by talking through what's on and off the table and choosing a safe word. Buckle the cuffs on first, snug but with room for a finger, then link them in front with the chain or tie them to a bedframe or chair. Slip on the blindfold. Without sight, every touch lands as a surprise, so begin with the feather tickler to find which spots make your partner laugh and which make them sigh. When you switch to the vibrator, tease around those spots before touching them directly. Swap roles another night; many couples find they enjoy both sides.

Light enough to travel

Everything packs into a small bag, which makes the kit easy to take to a hotel or a weekend away. The cuffs and chain have metal parts, so they're worth packing in checked luggage rather than a carry-on if you're flying. Charge the vibrator before you go, and pack the blindfold and feather in a separate pouch so the plume doesn't get crushed under heavier pieces.

Caring for each piece

Wash the vibrator after each use, pat it dry and keep it in a cool, dry place out of the sun and away from other toys. Rinse the feathers gently only when they need it and let them dry fully before storing. Hand-wash the blindfold in cool water, and wipe the cuffs with a damp cloth.

Specifications

• Brand: Bang! by XR
• Includes: rechargeable vibrator, PU leather wrist cuffs with metal chain, feather tickler, satin blindfold
• Vibrator: 8.5" x 1.4", 7.25" insertable; 3 modes; ABS plastic and silicone; waterproof up to 30 minutes submerged; not for anal use
• Cuffs: PU leather, neoprene, metal; adjust from 4.75" to 9.75" circumference
• Tickler: 9" x 1.5"; ABS plastic, feathers, rubber
• Blindfold: 7.5" x 3.25"; satin
• Colour: black, red and white

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