XR Comfort Weighted Butt Plug – 3.3-Inch, Small

The XR Comfort Weighted Butt Plug in Small is a 3.3-inch silicone butt plug with a solid metal core, so it feels heavier than it looks. The round 1.4-inch bulb and slim neck make it a sensible first or second plug, and the extra weight adds a gentle pull that you notice every time you shift position. It suits people learning what size works for them and anyone curious about longer wear.

What a weighted plug feels like

Most plugs are hollow or solid silicone and stay put once they're in. This one has a metal core, and gravity does the rest: when you stand, walk or roll over, you feel a soft downward tug and a shift of pressure inside. Your muscles respond by gripping a little to hold it, which many people find adds to the sense of fullness. Lying down, the weight is barely noticeable; sitting or standing, it becomes part of the sensation.

Is the small size right for you?

The insertable part is 2.9 inches, made up of a 1.4-inch bulb and a 1.5-inch neck. The bulb is 1.4 inches across at its widest, roughly the width of two fingers held together. If you've only tried a finger, this is a fair first stretch; if you already use plugs around 1.25 inches, it's a small step up. XR describes the Comfort plugs as a way to learn your size, so if the small feels easy after a few sessions, the next size in the line is the natural move.

Getting it in comfortably

Use plenty of water-based lube on the plug and around your entrance; a lube shooter helps you get some inside first. Lie on your side with your top knee drawn up, press the rounded tip against you and breathe out slowly as you push. The widest part of the bulb is the only stretch; once it passes, your muscles close around the neck and the plug settles on its own. Give yourself a minute before you move, and try touching yourself to help your body relax around it.

Wearing it for longer

A slim neck and a narrow base that fits between your cheeks mean you can sit with this plug in without it digging. Start with short sessions and build up, and take it out at once if you feel soreness or numbness. The metal core may set off some airport or building security scanners, so remove it before you go through one.

Cleaning a silicone butt plug

Push the plug out gently, wash it in warm water with mild soap, rinse, then finish with a spray of toy cleaner. XR advises storing it out of direct sunlight and away from other silicone toys, and keeping it separate from toys you use anywhere other than anally. A cloth pouch keeps it clean between uses, and a quick look at the surface before each session will show any nicks or tackiness that mean it's time to replace it.

Specifications

• Brand: XR, Comfort Weighted Plug (Small)
• Material: silicone over a solid metal core, phthalate-free
• Overall length: 3.3 inches
• Insertable length: 2.9 inches
• Bulb: 1.4 inches long, 1.4 inches diameter
• Neck length: 1.5 inches
• Base length: 3.6 inches
• Lube: water-based only
• Colour: black

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