Pink Elephant Extreme Anchor Stainless Steel Anal Plug – XXL

The Pink Elephant Extreme Anchor XXL is a stainless steel butt plug for people who already know they love serious fullness and real weight. It weighs 743 grams, has a listed widest point of 70 mm (2.75 in), and finishes in a silicone handle at the base, so the part you hold is softer and easier to grip than bare metal. This is not a first plug, and it isn't trying to be one.

Who the XXL is really for

The Extreme Anchor range is built around size and mass rather than gentle introductions. The XXL makes sense if you already use a large butt plug comfortably, enjoy the stretch of a wide bulb, and want something that stays put and keeps reminding you it's there. If you're still working up from small or medium plugs, the jump to 70 mm is a big one, and you'll get more out of something like the Extreme Bulb Medium first.

What 743 grams of steel feels like

Weight changes how a plug behaves. A light silicone plug can shift when you move; a heavy anal plug like this one settles low and presses with gravity, which many experienced users describe as a deep, constant fullness. Standing or walking makes the weight more noticeable, while lying down lets it rest. Steel also holds temperature: run it under warm water before use for a warm, solid feel, or leave it at room temperature if you like a cooler first touch. Keep it away from very hot or freezing water, since metal passes temperature on quickly.

Taking a stainless steel butt plug this size

Give yourself time. Warm up with fingers or a smaller toy until you're relaxed, then use a generous amount of a thick anal lube on both the plug and your body. Lying on your side with your knees drawn up, or on your back with a pillow under your hips, gives you the most control. Press gently, breathe out as the widest part passes, and let your body open at its own pace. Steel has no give at all, so if anything feels sharp or painful, stop and try again another day rather than pushing through. Once it's seated, the narrower neck lets the base rest against you.

To remove it, relax, add a little more lube around the base, and ease it out slowly while breathing out. The silicone handle gives you a non-slip grip even with lube on your fingers.

XL, XXL or XXXL?

The three Anchor sizes step up in width and weight. The Extreme Anchor XL is listed at 60 mm wide and 506 grams, so it's the sensible stepping stone. The XXL adds 10 mm and more than 200 grams. The Extreme Anchor XXXL shares the XXL's 145 mm overall length but goes to 80 mm and just over a kilogram. If you're between sizes, choose the smaller one: with a rigid steel plug, a few millimetres make a real difference.

Cleaning the steel and the silicone handle

Stainless steel is non-porous, so warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner will get it clean. Pay attention to where the steel meets the silicone handle, and dry that join thoroughly. The supplier doesn't publish boiling or dishwasher guidance, so stick to hand washing. Store it in the black velvet bag it comes in, and keep it from knocking against other toys, since this much steel can dent softer materials.

Specifications

• Brand: Pink Elephant, Extreme Anchor range
• Material: stainless steel plug with a silicone handle
• Overall length: 5.70 in / 145 mm
• Widest point: 2.75 in / 70 mm (as listed)
• Weight: 26.20 oz / 743 g
• Power: none
• Packaging: black velvet drawstring bag, no retail box
• Also in XL and XXXL

Browse the full Pink Elephant range, or read our guide to anal play tips and techniques before sizing up.