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The Pink Elephant Extreme Wand Large is a stainless steel dildo for people who want firm, precise pressure and a toy with real heft in the hand. Listed at 190 mm (7.48 in) long, 35.66 mm (1.40 in) at its widest point and 492.7 grams, it's the bigger of the two Extreme Wand sizes. It has no motor, so the name is about the slender wand form, and all the sensation comes from steel, shape and weight.
Steel doesn't bend or compress. That's the main reason people love it: when you press, the toy presses back exactly where you aim it, which makes deliberate, targeted strokes easy. The polished surface is very slippery once lubed, and the weight means even small movements feel full and solid. It also makes for a toy that, cared for properly, can last for many years.
Warm it first. Hold it under warm running water or rest it in a bowl of warm water for a minute, then check it against your wrist. Add lube, start slowly and let the weight do the work rather than pushing hard. Lying back with knees raised gives a good angle for reaching the front wall; on your side works well for slower, longer strokes. Because it's rigid, small changes of angle make a big difference, so experiment a little. Try slow, rocking movements rather than full in-and-out strokes at first; with a firm toy, rocking keeps pressure on one area and is often more satisfying than speed.
Some people like it cool instead, straight from room temperature, for a brief, bright contrast. Either way, avoid boiling water and the freezer.
The supplier doesn't describe a flared base or stopper on the Extreme Wand. For anal play, a toy without a base must be held firmly the whole time, so if you mainly want anal use, a plug or a toy with a wide base is a more relaxed choice. Our butt plugs include plenty of steel options.
The Large is 190 mm and close to half a kilogram. The Extreme Wand Small is 159 mm long, 30.94 mm at its widest and 334.3 grams, so it's easier on the wrist and a gentler introduction to steel. If you already enjoy firm, substantial toys, the Large gives you more reach and more weight behind each stroke. If you're new to metal, the Small is the safer first buy.
Wash before and after use with warm water and a mild soap or toy cleaner, then dry it completely with a soft cloth to keep the mirror finish. Store it in its black velvet drawstring bag, away from silicone and glass toys it might chip or scuff. Pink Elephant doesn't state whether it can be boiled or put in the dishwasher, so hand wash only. A quick buff with a dry microfibre cloth before you put it away removes fingerprints and keeps the mirror shine.
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