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Curious about steel but not ready for a heavyweight? The Pink Elephant Extreme Wand Small is a compact stainless steel dildo, listed at 159 mm (6.26 in) long, 30.94 mm (1.22 in) at its widest point and 334.3 grams. It gives you the firmness, glide and temperature play that make metal toys so popular, in a size that's comfortable to hold and easy to control. There's no motor; the wand name refers to its slim form.
The first thing most people notice is the weight. Even this smaller size is heavier than a typical silicone toy, so it feels solid and deliberate in the hand. The second is the firmness: stainless steel has no give at all. Rather than flexing, it holds its shape and delivers exactly the pressure you put behind it, which many find easier for reaching a particular spot. The third is the glide. With a little lube, the polished surface moves with almost no friction.
Start by warming it. A minute under warm running water takes the chill off; test the temperature on your inner wrist. Use lube on the toy and on yourself, and begin with short, shallow strokes, letting the weight carry the movement instead of pushing. Lying back with a pillow under your hips or on your side both work well. Because the toy is rigid, tilt it slightly at a time until you find an angle you like.
If you enjoy the contrast of cool metal, use it at room temperature. Avoid the freezer and boiling water; both are too extreme against sensitive skin.
Once you're comfortable, try pairing it with external touch or a small vibrator held against your clitoris or perineum. The steel carries a little of that vibration with it, adding a buzz the toy can't make on its own.
Compared with the Extreme Wand Large, the Small is 31 mm shorter, about 5 mm slimmer at its widest and roughly 160 grams lighter. That makes it less tiring to hold, easier to pack in a bag, and a more forgiving introduction to the feel of steel. People who already know they love firm, heavy toys often go for the Large; everyone else usually starts here.
Pink Elephant doesn't list a flared base or stopper on the Extreme Wand, so treat it as a hand-held toy. For anal play it should be held throughout. If you'd like something you can leave in place, look at a plug with a wide base instead.
Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after each use. Rinse, then dry thoroughly with a lint-free cloth so water spots don't dull the polish. Keep it in the black velvet drawstring bag it comes with. As no boiling or dishwasher guidance is given by the supplier, a sink wash is the way to go.
Browse the full Pink Elephant range, or compare other materials in our dildo buying guide.
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