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The Lovense Flexer is an insertable panty vibrator with a twist: the internal arm doesn't only buzz, it moves in a beckoning, "come hither" curl against the front wall. A second arm sits on the outside for clitoral vibration, and the whole thing is run from the Lovense Remote app, by you or by a partner nearby or far away. Most wearables only offer external vibration, so that fingering-style motion is what makes the Flexer different.
Lovense built the Flexer around three motors: one vibrates the external arm, one vibrates the insertable arm, and the third drives the come-hither movement. Each can run on its own or together. That lets you start with gentle outside vibration while you get used to wearing it, then add the internal motion when you're ready. In the app you can choose low, medium or high levels, play preset patterns or save your own.
The insertable part is short, about 8 cm, with a diameter of around 3.2 cm, so it's an approachable size. Add a little water-based lube to the inner arm, slide it in until the outer arm rests over the clitoris, and adjust the angle until both points sit where you want them. Snug underwear holds it in place for hands-free play. Expect it to be noticeable under very thin or tight clothing; for wear outside the home, looser bottoms work better.
Connect the Flexer to your phone via Bluetooth through the free Lovense Remote app. Up close, a partner can take over from their own phone in the same room. For long-distance play, the app lets someone control it over the internet from anywhere with a connection. Keep the phone within normal Bluetooth range of the toy, since that link is what carries the signal. Turning on the toy before opening the app usually makes pairing quicker.
The Flexer makes sense if you already know you enjoy internal stimulation and want it hands-free, or if you're in a relationship where handing over control is part of the fun. It's also a good pick for long-distance couples who want something more involved than a vibrating egg. If you mainly enjoy external stimulation, a clip-on external wearable such as the Lovense Ferri is simpler. And if apps feel like a barrier, a toy with buttons will be less fuss.
It charges with a magnetic USB cable and takes about 100 minutes to fill; Lovense quotes up to 2 hours of play per charge. The Flexer is rated IPX7, so it's fine in the shower or bath and easy to rinse. Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, dry it, and keep it in its pouch away from dust and other toys. Stick to water-based lube to protect the silicone.
Comparing wearables? Browse our panty and wearable vibrators, the full Lovense range, or read the guide to couples sex toys.
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