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The Gender Fluid Excite! I Love You plug is a metal anal plug made from aluminium alloy with an acrylic accent. It's the longest of the three Excite! plugs we carry, and the slimmest by listed width, so it suits people who like a sleek, weighty plug with a little length rather than a wide bulb.

What metal feels like

Metal plugs are firm and completely smooth. There's no give at all, which some people love because every movement is felt clearly. Aluminium alloy is lighter than stainless steel, and at 174 g this plug has a noticeable but manageable weight. Metal also takes on temperature: hold it in your hand for a minute and it warms to skin temperature; rinse it under cool water and it gives a brief, sharp chill on insertion. Avoid very hot water or freezing it, since extremes are uncomfortable and hard to judge.

Size and how it compares

Gender Fluid lists this plug at 142 × 34 mm, which is longer than the Excite! Flared plug (122 × 39 mm) and the Excite! Extendo plug (102 × 38 mm). If depth suits you more than width, this is the one to choose. If you're brand new to anal play, a soft silicone plug in a small size is a gentler first step before you move to rigid metal.

Using a metal anal plug comfortably

  • Use plenty of lube on the plug and on yourself. Metal has no texture to hold lube, so reapply as needed.
  • Relax first, then insert slowly with steady pressure, letting your body open around the taper.
  • Once in place, make sure the base sits flat against you, outside the body.
  • Keep early sessions short and remove the plug if anything feels sharp or painful.

Care

Wash it before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, then dry it fully. The maker doesn't give care instructions for the acrylic part, so skip boiling and the dishwasher. The alloy is listed as nickel-free, lead-free, cadmium-free and phthalate-free.

Specifications

  • Brand: Gender Fluid, Excite! range
  • Material: aluminium alloy with acrylic
  • Listed as nickel-free, lead-free, cadmium-free and phthalate-free
  • Size: 142 × 34 mm (as listed)
  • Weight: 174 g

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Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about Gender Fluid Excite! I Love You Anal Plug.

Is a metal anal plug good for beginners?

It can be, but metal is rigid with no give, so it rewards patience. If you've never used a plug, start with a small soft silicone one, then move to metal once you know what feels comfortable. Lots of lube and a slow start matter more with metal.

Which lube should I use with an aluminium plug?

Any lube works with metal itself. Silicone lube lasts longer and suits anal play well; water-based lube is easier to wash off. Avoid oil-based lube if you're also using latex condoms.

How do I use the plug for temperature play?

For warmth, hold it in your hands or sit it in a bowl of warm tap water for a minute. For a cool start, rinse it under cold water. Test it against your wrist first, and avoid boiling water or the freezer.

How heavy is the Excite! I Love You plug?

It weighs 174 g, about 6 oz. That's enough to feel a gentle pull and sense of fullness when you move, without being tiring to wear for a short session.

How is it different from the other Excite! plugs?

It's the longest and slimmest of the three by listed size, at 142 × 34 mm. The Flared plug is shorter and wider at 122 × 39 mm, and the Extendo is the shortest at 102 × 38 mm but nearly as wide.

Can I wear it for long periods?

Start with 10 to 20 minutes and see how your body feels afterwards. Metal doesn't flex as you move, so long wear is more noticeable than with silicone. Remove it if you feel any pain, numbness or sharp pressure.

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