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The Gender X Gold Standard is a rechargeable silicone bullet vibrator with a slanted, lipstick-shaped tip and a rose gold base. The angled tip can pinpoint small spots or lie flat for broader buzz, and ten settings sit behind one glowing button. It suits beginners who want an easy first toy and anyone after a slim, precise vibe for solo or partnered play.
Round-ended bullets touch the body at one point. The Gold Standard's tip is cut at an angle, like a lipstick, which gives you two ways to use it. Turn it point-first and the narrow edge fits into small spaces, along the hood of the clitoris, between the labia or around the base of the penis, for precise, targeted vibration. Turn it so the flat face lies against the skin and the same motor spreads across a wider area for a broader, rumbling sensation. Moving between the two during a session is as simple as rolling the toy in your fingers.
All ten vibrating speeds and functions run from a single button on the base, which lights up while the toy is on. That makes it easy to see at a glance whether it's running, and easy to find the control in a dim room. Press to switch on and click through the settings; most people find a favourite steady speed for warm-up and a stronger one or a pattern for later. Start low, since a focused tip can feel intense quickly, and step up one setting at a time.
Begin with the flat face of the tip over the clitoris, outside the labia or over underwear, at a low speed. Once you're warmed up, try the narrow point around the edges of the clitoris rather than directly on it, and move in slow circles or small up-and-down strokes. During sex, the slim shape fits between bodies in missionary, spooning or partner-on-top positions; either partner can hold it. Partners with a penis often enjoy it against the frenulum or perineum, too. It has an insertable length of 3 inches, so gentle shallow internal use is possible, but it's not for anal play because it has no flared base.
The Gold Standard is waterproof and submersible, so it can come into the bath or shower. It recharges by USB with the included cable; charge it fully before first use and dry it before plugging in. The body is smooth silicone and the base is ABS plastic with a rose gold finish, both phthalate-free and latex-free. Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, rinse well and let it air-dry. Use water-based lube, which is safe with silicone.
At 3.93 inches tall and 0.84 inches across, and weighing under half a pound, it fits in the palm and slips easily into a nightstand drawer or travel bag. It's a good first vibrator for anyone who wants something small and simple, and a handy precision toy for experienced users who find wands too broad.
Browse more bullet vibrators and the Gender X range, or read how to use a bullet vibrator.
Helpful answers about Gender X The Gold Standard Bullet Vibrator.
Yes. The Gold Standard is waterproof and fully submersible, so it's fine in the bath or shower. Water washes lube away, so reapply as needed. Dry the toy completely before connecting the USB cable to charge.
Connect the Gold Standard to a USB port with the included cable. Gender X doesn't list charge or run time, so charge it fully before the first session and top it up when the vibration feels weaker. The button lights up during use, so you can see it's on.
Yes. The Gold Standard is small, light and controlled by one button, so it's easy to learn. Begin with the flat side of the tip on a low speed over the clitoris; the pointed edge gives more intense, focused vibration once you're used to it.
No. The Gold Standard is a bullet without a flared base, so it could slip in too far. For anal vibration, choose a toy with a wide base from our anal vibrators.
Yes. The slim Gold Standard fits between bodies during penetration, especially in spooning or partner-on-top positions. Hold the flat face against the clitoris, or try it on a partner's perineum. Its single button makes it simple to switch settings mid-session.
Use a water-based lube with the Gold Standard, because its body is silicone and silicone lube can break silicone down over time. A small amount on the tip is enough for external play. See our water-based lubes.
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