Strap-On-Me Simili Generous Strap-On Harness – Metallic Blue

The Strap-On-Me Generous in Metallic Blue is a fully adjustable strap-on harness with a shiny metallic finish and a double silicone ring system that lets you change dildos without threading anything through straps. Waist and leg straps adjust across a wide range of bodies, which is where the "Generous" name comes from. It's a structured dildo harness for people who want something that holds firm but still looks like an outfit.

The double ring and snap system

At the front are two silicone rings that work together. The inner ring grips the dildo's base, and the outer ring locks it in place against the front panel, held with snap buttons. To swap toys, you unsnap, slide one dildo out, fit the next and snap it closed again. There's no need to step out of the harness or re-thread a ring, which makes the Generous handy if you like to switch between sizes during a session.

Adjusting the fit

Strap-On-Me sizes the Generous as one size covering roughly XS to XXL. The waist strap and the two leg straps each adjust, so you can position the front panel exactly where you want it. Put it on by stepping into the leg straps, pull it up to hip level, then tighten the waist first and the leg straps second. The rings should sit flat over the pubic bone. Leg straps are what stop the dildo from drooping, so set them snug.

Which dildos fit

Any dildo with a defined, flared base or suction cup will work, from slimmer beginner toys to thicker ones. The double ring copes with a wider range of base sizes than a single fabric ring. Strap-On-Me designs it to pair with its own silicone dildos, and our harness-compatible dildos are all suitable. Very large or heavy toys need the leg straps fully tightened to stay level.

Care and storage

Take the dildo out and clean it separately. Unsnap the silicone rings and wash them with warm water and mild soap. Wipe the harness body with a damp cloth and a little mild soap, then let everything air-dry before storing. Keep it in the cotton pouch it comes with, away from sharp objects that could scratch the metallic finish.

Who it suits

The Generous is a good fit for strap-on wearers who want stability and adjustability in one piece, for couples sharing a harness between bodies of different sizes, and for anyone who likes to switch dildos mid-session. It's also a smart first harness if you're not sure of your size, because the straps cover so much range. If you'd rather wear something soft that feels like underwear, a lingerie-style harness will be more comfortable.

Generous or a lingerie harness?

Lingerie harnesses like the Strap-On-Me Diva feel like underwear but give a toy more freedom to move. The Generous is the steadier option: buckles and leg straps hold the front panel firmly, which helps with heavier dildos and longer sessions. It also comes in Metallic Aubergine if blue isn't your colour.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Generous harness
• Colour: Metallic Blue (also in Aubergine)
• Size: one size, adjustable roughly XS to XXL
• Straps: adjustable waist strap and two leg straps
• Rings: double silicone ring with snap-button system
• Compatibility: dildos with a flared or suction-cup base; designed for Strap-On-Me dildos
• Included: cotton storage pouch
• Not included: dildo

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